MAW is for life threatening conditions.That's what I thought too. I'm surprised that they qualified for MAW. The kids I know who have been granted wishes have had terminal or very life shortening diseases.
The spending of $191 also makes me feel like she was planning all along to extend the shopping trip out long enough to see that parade at night too.
I feel bad for the child though to have to deal with Mom's poor behavior--I hope he had the magical trip she didn't.
Hemophilia A is one of the more severe forms under the umbrella of hemophilia. People with severe forms of hemophilia A might only have 1% of the clotting ability in their blood that the average person has.MAW is for life-threatening diseases not just terminal. However, I'm kind of surprised that Hemophillia qualified for the trip. My dd9 has a rare bleeding disorder under the hemophilia "umbrella" similar to VonWillebrand but she does not qualify.
That is what the mother says, but that very well may not have been what was said at all.It sounds to me like the mother was being very difficult, but if the manager of the store said " YOU ARE TAKING ADVANTAGE of your sons wish" to her, in my opinion, that was completely inappropriate. It certainly did nothing to defuse the situation.
I can't believe Security didn't do their jobs and escort them from the park. That just sends the message to other people that all they have to do is throw a tantrum and they'll get whatever they want, too.
MAW is for life-threatening diseases not just terminal. However, I'm kind of surprised that Hemophillia qualified for the trip. My dd9 has a rare bleeding disorder under the hemophilia "umbrella" similar to VonWillebrand but she does not qualify.
From reading the article, it really felt like this Mom was using her son to get beyond preferential treatment. I know Make A Wish kids are treated like royalty at Disney (and they should be) but using your wish kid to do something a cast member has told you that you cannot do? It feels kind of gross to me.
I mean, honestly - they couldn't spring for the party tickets after having their vacation paid for like that? Or at least asked MAW in advance for party tickets, just by doing a little planning? I bet they would have made it happen.
I think it's important to keep in mind that the whole Make A Wish thing is incredibly difficult for those of us who go through it, and that we can't account for this mother's emotional state by the end of the trip. On the surface, it seems like we as parents of wish kids should be overjoyed that our children are chosen for wishes and we are - it's a truly awesome experience. But it's really much more complex than that, especially when your child is one who lives daily with a life-threatening, life-limiting condition. Once you get past the, "Oh my gosh, we're going to Disney," you're left with, "Oh my gosh,I can't believe my kid is sick enough to qualify because Make A Wish is only for the REALLY sick kids". And then there's a lot of pressure for the trip to be perfect, and the fear that it won't be perfect, and the idea that you'll never get to do this again for as long as the child may live. The article says this was on their last night. The last night before their lives are going back to the way they have always been - the needle sticks, the fear, the hospitalizations. Don't you think that perhaps emotions were running high? Maybe they hadn't had a great week health wise? Maybe mom knew that things were trending south and they were about to get a huge smack from reality, that she wanted one last chance to do this for her kids? We don't know. All we know is what we see on the surface, that there was an apparently unbalanced mom who just wanted more after she had already been given so much. We don't even know that this is who she really is. You spend all week as a Wish family being told if you want something, ask for it. Don't be afraid to tell people you're on a Wish trip to see if you can get some special consideration. We're told that. We're told that the Wish is for the child but the experience is for the family. It's a complex thing, one that you can't fully understand until you've lived it. In many ways, when we went back as a family this past April, the trip was so much better there were no expectations that it would be the trip of a lifetime. There was no pressure for it to be perfect. We could simply be together as a family. Again, something that's hard to understand unless you've lived it.
That is what the mother says, but that very well may not have been what was said at all.
Even if the CM used the words "take advantage" it may have been in a different sentence entirely - for example 'I'm sorry that your child is on a MAW trip, but guests who have not paid for the party are not allowed to take advantage of the extra hours'
The mom may have heard only "MAW take advantage"
You spend all week as a Wish family being told if you want something, ask for it. Don't be afraid to tell people you're on a Wish trip to see if you can get some special consideration. We're told that. We're told that the Wish is for the child but the experience is for the family. It's a complex thing, one that you can't fully understand until you've lived it. In many ways, when we went back as a family this past April, the trip was so much better there were no expectations that it would be the trip of a lifetime. There was no pressure for it to be perfect. We could simply be together as a family. Again, something that's hard to understand unless you've lived it.
I think there is a difference between getting a last inure dining reservation and trying to stay in the park after it was closed to day guests. Having been to the park on a party night there are many announcements that then park is closing to day guests. It's not a big secret. I'm sure an exception would be made if the child needed to use the bathroom or first aid but shopping, really. Like others have said we don't actually know what the cm said only what the mother said she said. It is possible they offered shopping alternative but the mother was so focused on this is where I want to shop and I'm going to do it.