We did second seating on our first cruise (kids were 10, 8 & 8) and it was a disaster. The next 4 cruises, we did first and it was fine. For cruise #6 we tried second, but made an effort for all of us to have a late afternoon snack/small meal from the fast food places on the pool deck. This worked fantastically. It's not all junk food, there's healthy offerings alongside the chips & hot dogs. This helped to extend our day where we enjoyed our cruise that much more. We enjoyed it so much that we've changed our next two cruises to second seating as well. We did have to be flexible with the kids to let them cut out of the MDR to the Edge after they'd finished eating. On the whole, this different approach made second seating our preference. Take it FWIW