tiggereyore
The laughter of a child is the light of a house
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- Jun 20, 2002
My 4 almost 5 (6/9) is supposed to be going on a field trip with his Pm PreK class along with Am PreK, AmK and Pmk. I guess I'll start w/ background. 4yr olds are not allowed to ride the busses in Hartford (VT)so all yr we've transported him. Then the teacher wants to do a field trip to the sugarhouse(ours) We are turned down because of this rule. Okay 1 month later we are notified that these classes will be going to Billings farm and meusum on a bus leaving at 9 am and won't be back till 1:30 pm(classes aren't even that long). Here's the issues.. there are 1 adult to 7 kids, the bus thing now they can ride, the groups will be mixed amoung the 4 classes, and the kicker No other parents are allowed to attend even if you pay your own way. Some more background Levi is scared to death of cows mooing (I know silly since we have animals and he's around other peoples cows). This is in barn situations only not out in the field. Because we have animals and equipment we have drilled it into both DS's heads that you don't go near the equipment with out us. So the delema begins he refuses to go unless we're with him (or just in the area not him clung to us) Billings farm says we have every right to be there(it is after all a public place) The school thinks I'm an awful parent if I don't force him to go and the principal has said so. I have called the superintendant of the schools andhe's looking into the rulings. But both have said that they'll just cancel all feild trips and they have thought about it any way.
So... Please help Advice is needed if we are way off base with this (we are not the only parents very upset) but be nice in your critisism I've spent most of the night awake about this.
Oh yeah one more thing the 4 Parent helpers where choseen by the teachers as to who has spent the most time in the class (there are 4 of us in his class that are always there) and they weren't even honest with the one they picked (I know I asked her) So advise me please.....
UPDATE !!!!
As of 2:30 my DH had a conversation w/ the principal and now it was all just a giant misunderstanding. She had ameeting with the 4 teachers involved and said that we are willing to pay and drive and this little piece of info they missed the 1st 8 times around makes all the difference. As long as we abide by Billings rules and don't talk over the instructor yadayada. More like the superindendant told her to get over it. The other parents and I figure they have had quiet parents not willing to push for things. Boy are they introuble now, if nothing else we're vocal. The bus issue got cleared up too. As long as they have 1 adult for every 2 4yr old on the big bus its fine (there are only 4 of 24 that are still 4) on the Van buses they'd have to be in car seats. Well I'm sure this will be the 1st of many hurdles to over come thank you so much for all your answers and support my Dh now understands why I call it a Dis FAMILY. He like actually read the thread! Maybe theres hope yet! Kidding he's wonderful and spends as much time on the boys as I do. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart (I'm going to bed to catch up on last nights missed sleep "see" you all in the AM).
So... Please help Advice is needed if we are way off base with this (we are not the only parents very upset) but be nice in your critisism I've spent most of the night awake about this.
Oh yeah one more thing the 4 Parent helpers where choseen by the teachers as to who has spent the most time in the class (there are 4 of us in his class that are always there) and they weren't even honest with the one they picked (I know I asked her) So advise me please.....
UPDATE !!!!
As of 2:30 my DH had a conversation w/ the principal and now it was all just a giant misunderstanding. She had ameeting with the 4 teachers involved and said that we are willing to pay and drive and this little piece of info they missed the 1st 8 times around makes all the difference. As long as we abide by Billings rules and don't talk over the instructor yadayada. More like the superindendant told her to get over it. The other parents and I figure they have had quiet parents not willing to push for things. Boy are they introuble now, if nothing else we're vocal. The bus issue got cleared up too. As long as they have 1 adult for every 2 4yr old on the big bus its fine (there are only 4 of 24 that are still 4) on the Van buses they'd have to be in car seats. Well I'm sure this will be the 1st of many hurdles to over come thank you so much for all your answers and support my Dh now understands why I call it a Dis FAMILY. He like actually read the thread! Maybe theres hope yet! Kidding he's wonderful and spends as much time on the boys as I do. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart (I'm going to bed to catch up on last nights missed sleep "see" you all in the AM).