Hi! Citricos has plainer fare than V&A's, and when we went, it was pretty quiet. I'd recommend a later dinner, when the kiddies are more likely to be asleep in their rooms, than out making noise in the hotel. The staff there went above and beyond - we went there for dinner on our WDW wedding & honeymoon trip, and the pastry chef wrote "Just Married" and "Happily Ever After" in chocolate on the edge of our dessert plates.
Our favorite restaurant is V&A's, but if you aren't big on gourmet food, I would suggest Citricos.
Cheers!
Heather W