We are making our first trip to WDW on friday! Can't wait!! Our kids are 4,7,9. We plan on spending every day (5) at a park, including a water park. We'd really rather spend the evenings enjoying our condo at OKW, but I feel like I would really be missing something if we don't do Wishes and Spectro. Any opinions?? The thought of fighting crowds in the evening, vs. relaxing at the pool and getting the kids to bed at a decent hour (we are planning on using EMH). Seems like I've already made up my mind, but I am really worried we are missing something so incredible, I'll regret it!! Please help!!