You are in a discussion forum. You posted here. The door was left open based on what you wrote and we responded. You can and will get every answer possible. Those of us (including me who IS A MAN.. Talk about insulting, thanks ladies?) who have traveled there know and have seen your type of person there.
We aren't being mean so much as being realistic. When you come on asking what levels of compensation are adequate for not getting what you want, that throws up flags to the rest of us. Btw, you were looking for parkhoppers for attractions being down, discounted rooms if you didn't get the one you wanted...
If you don't want your "feelings" hurt then public discussion forums may not be for you.
You planned poorly. Period. Disney is honoring what you have made accommodations for. They owe you nothing for scheduled refurbs or for room assignments. If the room is not adequate upon entry into the room, that's different than requesting specifics.
As said above, don't cry now that myself and others have weighed in... As you... Requested
It is true, you have had the benefit of experience to give you a better sense of what is realistic. I have not. I said "ladies" because I had reason to believe that at least that 3/4 people identified as ladies. If I offended you, I am sorry. Again, I reiterate, I came here looking for insight, not criticism or conflict. I am glad to report you don't in fact "know my type of person" and you've never seen me at Disney before. I am a planned first time visitor on a tip board looking for tips. You and your associates have made it clear that you think I suck and plan terribly and expect something for nothing. None of that is in fact true, but you are entitled to your opinion. I am respectfully asking that you choose to spend your time productively with kind words or else leave me alone. Crying and empathy are nothing to be ashamed of, and I believe that everyone deserves respect, especially in public forums. If we disagree on that as well, so be it. I came to these boards because I found the podcasts welcoming and informative.