I have a too-small kid, she’s the 3rd so we’ve been through this for a while, and I personally have never felt that way. We make our choices, we alternate big and small rides, and we tour as a family. I don’t feel she is missing out in any way. She’s too short, she’ll get to ride the next ride. I’ve always found my kids did better with having that downtime during a RS ride anyways, rather than constantly rushing from ride to ride and from line to line. There are tons of other ways to enjoy Disney besides ride ride ride ride. And we like to do those small rides as a family anyways.
I hear it .And I hear YOUR style .but my style.is also not "crazy". In fact it's probably more common .My point was more that i can't see how it never crossed dthe pp's mind that was how many do it. We all want to play by the rules but the rules are always fluid and people use them to match their own touring styles