Thank you for helping me see today, via this answer, that despite my yuccky commute, I'm fortunate to be spending my time, once I get there, doing something meaningful.My job. Not that it's a waste of time per se; it brings in 75% of our income and not doing it simply isn't an option. But it does grieve me that I spend more hours and energy there than I do with the people I love and my ability to serve them and make a meaningful contribution to my community has been so drastically diminished.
His BM?!? Are we talking about what I think we're talking about?My ex husband and my current husband's BM. Far too much time wasted.
His BM?!? Are we talking about what I think we're talking about?
His BM?!? Are we talking about what I think we're talking about?
His BM?!? Are we talking about what I think we're talking about?
You may wish to come up with another way to abbreviate that. Pretty sure nobody was thinking "Mother of my Husband's children"...His kids bio mom... is that terrible? I guess I could have said his ex too, but we have to deal with her for a number more years.
Ha! I bet I know what you were thinking. I was too.
His kids bio mom... is that terrible? I guess I could have said his ex too, but we have to deal with her for a number more years.
Bachelor of Music?
I spend way too much time driving.
Blessedly I've never been in that situation but if I was divorced and my child(ren)'s step-mother referred to me in that way I would be outraged. I am a step-parent and like her or lump her, my husband's former wife is their MOTHER.First I thought bowel movement then I was like, surely not. My second guess was baby mama. Bio mom sounds makes it sound like the mother isn't involved with the kids. You will have to all learn to deal respectively with each other for the sake of the children. Maybe counselling. Poor kids.
Thanks low-key! Typing this out helped where this won’t be taking anymore of our time. We’ve made the plan to return to back to our home State.This has been for both me & DH. We've been discussing it daily now for the past 18 months. I worked for & DH continuing to work for the same major retail company. We're tired and beyond burnt out after 21 years. We want to move on with our lives with buying a home and settling down again, yet we feel constantly we're in limbo and living in fear job wise. There's been so much restructuring going on. Do we go back to our home State that has been our home for 24 years for me & 32 years for DH or Do we stay where we're at, make it home, yet no other job in the area that can even match current income?
Absolutely agree. She is the kids' mother. I don't think calling her anything different would bode well for getting things off to a good start with her.Blessedly I've never been in that situation but if I was divorced and my child(ren)'s step-mother referred to me in that way I would be outraged. I am a step-parent and like her or lump her, my husband's former wife is their MOTHER.