Miss Jasmine
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- Joined
- May 23, 2001
Chell, to me that falls under the same thing. I am sure she knows and that's probably the last thing she wants to hear (it is not going to make the situation any clearer to her). She is scared and hurting. Support is the most important thing, not stories of how this or that woman thought it wouldn't happen to them. Because deep down inside those women KNEW something would eventually happen. It was every one else who was surprised. Really, she doesn't need to hear these "horror" stories. She already knows.
Edited to add: It might be more helpful to sit down with her and figure out a safety plan "just in case". Things like having a bag packed and hidden away in a safe place, and knowing that she has "safe houses" that she can come to, no questions asked. Even if she's not living with this person, these are still important things.
Edited to add: It might be more helpful to sit down with her and figure out a safety plan "just in case". Things like having a bag packed and hidden away in a safe place, and knowing that she has "safe houses" that she can come to, no questions asked. Even if she's not living with this person, these are still important things.