We are just starting the process of having DS6 evaluated. We have seen a therapist 3 times and he has now referred us out to I believe a psychologist to have him evaluated for ADHD. While DH and I both agree there is a problem, we are not convinced that ADHD is the the problem, or at least not the only problem. I am looking of any suggestions of things to read, questions to ask, what ever information you can provide because we are feeling overwhelmed and we don't don't know anyone who has gone through this process.
We have been seeing the problems for a couple of years, but the doctor seemed the think it was just a phase, until his teacher asked me about it and said that the mood swings were not normal.
His teacher as said that he doesn't have a problem sitting and doing the work, it is the mood swings causing problems.
DS can be as nice as can be and then you literally see things change especially in his eyes and he is just a mean and angry as can be. Then with time and work he is back to his normal self. Another problem we are seeing is that his reactions to things are out of proportion to what happened. Being told "no" is enough to send him running through the house crying, screaming and flapping his arms. He does this even though throwing a fit never gets him what he wants and he knows this.
This is the same boy who will spend hours watching or doing something that interests him. A couple of weeks ago we went to Cedar Point and he spent an hour and a half watching them make a blown glass fish and dragon, he would have watched longer but they took a break. He will also spend 2-3 hours at a time working with DH on these 3-D wooden puzzles that he likes.
Other things we have noticed is that he will collect things, plastic easter eggs, the plastic M&M tubes, tic tac containers, misc. things in a bag that he used to carry everywhere with him. He will also become obsessed with things until he figures them out. For a while we was obsessed with telling time on an analog clock. He studied clocks and kept asking questions until he could tell time, he started kindergarten being able to tell time.
Thanks
We have been seeing the problems for a couple of years, but the doctor seemed the think it was just a phase, until his teacher asked me about it and said that the mood swings were not normal.
His teacher as said that he doesn't have a problem sitting and doing the work, it is the mood swings causing problems.
DS can be as nice as can be and then you literally see things change especially in his eyes and he is just a mean and angry as can be. Then with time and work he is back to his normal self. Another problem we are seeing is that his reactions to things are out of proportion to what happened. Being told "no" is enough to send him running through the house crying, screaming and flapping his arms. He does this even though throwing a fit never gets him what he wants and he knows this.
This is the same boy who will spend hours watching or doing something that interests him. A couple of weeks ago we went to Cedar Point and he spent an hour and a half watching them make a blown glass fish and dragon, he would have watched longer but they took a break. He will also spend 2-3 hours at a time working with DH on these 3-D wooden puzzles that he likes.
Other things we have noticed is that he will collect things, plastic easter eggs, the plastic M&M tubes, tic tac containers, misc. things in a bag that he used to carry everywhere with him. He will also become obsessed with things until he figures them out. For a while we was obsessed with telling time on an analog clock. He studied clocks and kept asking questions until he could tell time, he started kindergarten being able to tell time.
Thanks