In all honesty, I had never heard of Aziz Ansari before this. It popped up on my FB one day, multiple times, so I thought I'd see what it was all about. I read the descriptive article. To me, it sounds like the guy was a little too kinky for her and she wasn't expecting it. She was expecting rose petals and champagne and he wanted a quick, um, fling.
She said over and over again that he was ignoring her nonverbal cues. I'm curious what she actually considers nonverbal cues. Was she pushing him away, turning away, turning around completely? Some guys like that and consider it a game. I was hanging out with a guy once, many years ago, and I laid down on his couch. He came over and practically jumped on top of me. I said "Hey, what do you think you're doing?!" and he told me I was sticking my rear in his face and it meant I wanted him. I said, "No, I was just laying down". I said no, right away. I stopped what he thought I wanted, right away. I verbally expressed that I wasn't interested and he backed off, right away.
I totally agree that she has cheapened the #MeToo movement. She had a bad date. She wasn't assaulted, she wasn't even harassed IMHO.