disneyaddict101
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Feb 7, 2013
I guess I'm just coming here for some different opinions than my own with this situation. My friend and I have been friends for 3 years. We met in freshmen art class and things were great then. We hung out all the time, like any other teenage girls do. Then once she became a sophomore things began to change. She started joking around about my looks in a girl friendy way , i always know shes kidding. The second I do it back (which has been VERY rarely and by saying nahhh you look horrribbleeee in a sarcastic way after her asking if she looked fine) she will storm off. Litterally. Middle of the mall just walk away. I also have a DBF who i have been dating for ten months. A while ago she was doing my hair and pulled hard while i was on the phone with him figuring out what time to come get me. Naturally i said ow and she flipped out for "making her seem bad" around my DBF. She has started dating (many) guys at once and come crying for me to clean up the pieces when they break up or cheat. What do you expect when your cheating on them? She also tries to break guys up. But the second I need her, wether its a rare fight with DBF or my mom, or even upset about my dad who passed. The most she will say is im sorry then switch to talking about herself. She lies to me a lot which im told its because shes jealous of my bf and that my grandparents gave me my old car. Which i understand but that shouldnt make her lie to me. Most recently she told me i see my DBF too much (i see him on tuesdays and only tuesday due to his strict parents), i talk about him too much(which i hardly do because she only texts me when something is wrong). It just hit me in the heart. While she has done all that stuff she never brought someone who meant that much to me in it. I stopped talking just so i wouldn't freak out on her. The week before i was on vacation and she texted me once. Not saying hi or anything, just "Guess what my bf just did". I decided im on vacation. Im not going to deal with her drama, and didnt reply til i got back which was when she talked to me about my bf. i stopped talking to her after that. Id get texts from her saying sorry. Then eventually i got a text saying "ive said sorry. The least you could do is forgive me". That was it for me. To me that just seemed like she was really sincere. A few days i texted her saying sorry for not replying but it was all too much. And i need some time to think our friendship through. I know i have to text her eventually and tell her what im deciding because its not fair to her. I just dont know if i want that image around me. I dont want to have to only deal with her drama, i dont want to be treated how she treated me, etc. opinions? I know there are two sides to every story but... Ive dealt with this for far too long and not sure if its time to move on.