But do people really go to actually SEE Beyonce or Jay-Z or do they go to SAY and post they were there?
I assume for most people, it is some of both. My girls were all over selfies with the stage behind them at Green Day, so the band's backdrop was visible. DD16 shared a couple of short clips on Snapchat too. She probably had the phone out for 20-30 min of an almost-3 hour show. Yes, "showing off" to her friends that she was there and had great seats (well, not really - front row/upper deck... far away but no one to block our view) was part of the fun. That doesn't means the music and the performance weren't the bulk of it. And while Billie Jo did say something at one point about enjoying the moment, not always watching through a phone, there were also show- and venue-specific Snapchat geo-filters so it isn't as though they were discouraging *all* social media sharing.
There were concerts long before there were cell phones. And people managed to get by for a couple hours during the show.
People managed to get by when contacting someone at a distance involved sending a letter and waiting days or weeks for a reply too, but that doesn't mean it would be an acceptable level of connectivity today. But expectations have changed as technology has changed, to the point where many people have personal and/or professional reasons not to be completely unreachable.
If the phones are stored in the pouches, you get to have your phone with you - in the pouch. So, conceivably, one would still be able to feel if the phone vibrates. Then you can go out, have it unlocked and respond to the call/text.
The problem with that, of course, is that there's no way to know what the text was. So it could be the sitter saying she's on the way to urgent care with one of the kids or your boss saying get to the office right now or else, or it could be Joann Fabrics sending a coupon for their super Saturday sale. And you have no way to know which unless you leave your seat, disturbing everyone else in your row, find an unlock station, and get access to your notifications (and, if it is nothing, disturb everyone around you again when returning to your seat). Hardly a good solution.
Well, I think the self-absorbed ones are those that feel they are so important they can't go without cell phone access for 2 hours. Follow the rules, or stay home...it's not complicated. Do people keep the their phones on and text during movies too? Or live theatre? In case there is an emergency that needs them? lol.
Text, no. But the phone is on, silenced and in 'do not disturb' mode so only calls/texts from known numbers will even trigger a notification, and I check the notification on my Fitbit to determine whether it is something I need to step out to deal with.