This is exactly how I feel about the ticket debacle. We are booked for early December with a party of 11. My DH and I have annual passes which we'll activate in July during our trip that was rescheduled from April. I was waiting to purchase the park tickets for the rest of the family for the December trip until after we return from the July trip. You know, wait to see how much money we spend on the first trip. Lol. We take this trip in December usually every other year and I buy the passes closer to the trip. My bad apparently (at least according to Disney's new system).
I've been a DVC member since 2001 and pretty much have always gone with the flow. We are a laid back group for the most part and can handle the reduced entertainment. Heck, most of the time we don't make it to the fireworks or parade anyway. But the stress of booking the July trip yesterday (two of the parks we were successful at booking are now not available, AK on 7/14 and HS on 7/15, so I am thankful that I could do that) and now waiting to see if there will be any availability for the parks for our December trip is just way too much to handle. I didn't even book parks for my DH and me for December because what's the point if I can't get those same parks for the rest of our family.
If Disney had just given guests with reservations in 2020 and no tickets an opportunity to purchase those tickets prior to opening it up to everyone else without resort/DVC reservations then I would be perfectly fine with that. So the fact that they didn't do that means that they are still trying to get people to cancel or move their trip. Well, I don't think I will do that. The grandkids will love Universal and Sea World just as much as they love Disney. We'll use our lodging as our base if we have to do so. I absolutely hate sounding so disgruntled and disappointed but that is where I'm at. My new normal when it comes to Disney. And don't get me started on the emails. I received not one email related to the park reservation system. If it wasn't for these boards then I doubt I would have my July park reservations. You guys rock!!!