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Lisa and Rick's PJ/TR: Peace, Love, Mickey Mouse DFTVR! - DAY THREE! =)

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Since I did not do a planning journal, I am going to cover our introductions and then a bit of pre-VR planning and then just pick right up with our VR trip report! :goodvibes
Rick and I met September 1997 in church. He was sitting in the row right in front of me. We have a “greet/hug each other” part of the service and he turned around to hug me and said, “You have a beautiful voice!” Well, that kind of flattery made him an instant friend =) :flower3: I thought he could be that ‘not so common’ guy friend – I sure wasn’t thinking romantically to begin with… One thing did lead to another though, and we had our first date on the Saturday night after Thanksgiving. Soon, we were pretty much inseparable. :lovestruc

He was frightened of being a Dad to my 6 and 9 year old sons though and he tried hard to just have a long term relationship! Na-uh, not me, so I offered to break up with him right away, LOL. I said the goal needed to be eventual marriage or nada…let’s just say we never broke up =) Along the way, we realized a mutual love of Disney and we started to plan a vacation, just he and I, for when my kids were going with their Dad on vacation for a week.

Five weeks before vacation, we were driving along somewhere in the car and Rick, out of the clear blue, asks me, “What do you think about making this Disney trip our honeymoon?” :love: So much for bended knee with ring at the ready…what did I say…YES, lol! We decided we wanted to elope so we went together and told our minister that we wanted him to marry us quietly after church on Sunday and then we would leave for Disney. He, being the Mickey lover that he is, said, “Why don’t we marry y’all in Disney and we’ll go too?” I did some minor checking and felt that even the smallest wedding at Disney was more than we needed. We tried our best to decline and our minister said we’ll just pick a quiet spot, marry you and we’ll be off to the parks =)

Well, he won and off we went. We all stayed at Caribbean Beach Resort and very early on July 7, 1998, Rick and I got married on the sandy beach in front of our building. My minister’s wife was our photographer; I didn’t do flowers or anything. We loved it though. We set up a camcorder on a tripod to record the event and surprise our families with when we got back. We kept it a secret until then… Here are a couple of pictures:
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We did have matching rings made for our wedding ceremony and they are so special to us! In fact, for our VR, we used our exact same rings during our vows:
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We had an idyllic honeymoon at Disney, of course. We settled into a very happy wedded life together. We did take our kids back to Disney at Christmas that same year and then we went through a very long Disney dry spell. We talked about going and could never quite get it together.

In early 2004, we decided we had to go back to Disney!! I started to do internet research and discovered about renting points to stay at DVC. That sounded perfect to us because we knew that a good vacation with two rambunctious boys would have separate bedrooms, LOL. The more I researched, the more I wanted DVC. Instead of renting points, we bought an OKW contract on the resale market, yay!!!!!! We chose OKW because it was the one Rick liked the look of in the pics at Allearsnet.com. I enticed him and I really didn’t care where he wanted to buy, lol, as long as we could buy it!!

We made our first DVC trip home in October 2004. Oh, DVC will really hook you – did we ever love OKW and that 2 bedroom villa we stayed in =) It just happened that my boys were going off to dad’s family in NY for fourth of July in 2005. That is our anniversary, July 7, the same week. So, we took a trip to Disney, just us two again, for our seventh anniversary! We had such a romantic and lovely trip!
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We were taking pics of Mickey&Minnie so they did the same - I love this pic :love:
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We even made an ADR for Shutters so that we could re-visit our wedding spot =)
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Here is a couple of pictures from our actual anniversary day!
Our original wedding spot:
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A rather unflattering pic of me at our wedding site, lol!
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Somewhere, along the way in planning for this trip, I discovered the idea of Disney vow renewals. Boy, did that ever get my attention! I felt that we had made a true success of marriage and I really wanted to celebrate this with our family. What better place than Disney to marry all over again? I broached the subject with Rick on our ten hour drive home from Disney. He must have been basking in the afterglow of a great Disney trip because he said yes to a 10th anniversary vow renewal at Disney!!!!! Let the planning begin =)
 
Great story Lisa! I love that your minister insisted it be at Disney! What memories for you! I can't wait to hear more!
 
Wow, that is quite a wedding story! You guys look so cute in all the pics! Can't wait to hear about the VR! :)
 


What a wonderful story - I like the idea of the combined PJ/Trip Report. Can't wait to hear more! :goodvibes
 
:lovestruc Thanks, everyone! Since I never did a pj, I thought it would be great to at least give a little behind the scenes planning. It won't be a blow-by-blow PJ since I just don't remember all of it, lol!! Only Mom and DH had to listen to the thousand times I changed my mind about favors as one example! :lmao:

It has always been a glorious memory to have married at Disney. Nothing can top the awesomeness of having a real Disney Fairytale Wedding though!!
 


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I love other's TR's...it's like reliving the VR all over again.

cheryl
 
Site Visit trip: 7/29/07
Mom, Dad, DH and I went on a fabulous Disney trip :lovestruc and while there we got to visit our reception site as well!! A little background on why we picked Italy as our wedding site. At first, I felt forced to pick the Wedding Pavilion, if only for the heat factor sure to be present on July 7, 2008!! Now this is not to say that the Wedding Pavilion is anything but breathtaking but I truly wanted another outdoor wedding, like our first. After much discussion, we decided to move our date up to May 27, 2008 in the hope that it would be a cooler day since we knew there would be very small babies in our family by that time (as yet unborn!). :hug: That settled; I felt free to discuss an outdoor venue. Rick really knew that I wanted Italy because it holds special meaning for me…I grew up in a military family and four years of my childhood were spent in Naples, Italy! It was a truly wonderful time for my family. I was 10 to almost 14 while we were there. The memories were so special that I asked Rick if we could marry there. He, like a true knight, said of course! :cloud9:
Here is a pic of the courtyard that I took on this trip.
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Every time I went to Disney, I took pictures of the Courtyard, LOL. I even stopped during the Minnie Marathon on May 4, 2008, to take more pictures of my beloved Italy, lol. :laughing: After I slowed to a walk to take this picture,
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I had to speed up again because there was a nice Disney photog ready to take this pic, haha!! :rotfl2:
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Because of many hours spent poring over trip reports from past Disney brides, I had already discovered the Attic for a possible reception site. It looked perfect for our reception because we were looking for a casual, cozy atmosphere for a party rather than something more elegant which really doesn’t fit our personalities. Plus, I saw pictures of toys in the Attic, including airplanes. I found this very exciting because my DH flies a small airplane for a living and I just knew it would please him. Pleasing my DH is part of my secret to a happy marriage… :wizard:
Before we left on the trip, I contacted Bill Barchik, our wedding consultant and was able to make an appointment with him to view the Attic and make sure it would be the perfect place for our reception/party. We planned the site visit for 3pm on August 3. Dad and Rick were spending that day at Fantasy of Flight (see what I mean?) This is the only place in Orlando that can drag my hubby away from Disney theme parks for a whole day!!
Mom and I planned a great day of shopping and girl time at Disney. We were shopping at DTD and we also wanted to take the DVC tour of the latest Animal Kingdom Villas models. So we took a bus to SSR. After the tour, we walked through the store next to Artist’s Palette. We thought it would be nice to take the boat back to DTD and then catch the bus to BW for our site visit appt. This was the worst transportation snafu in all my Disney memory!! First, we waited a looonnngg time for the boat. By the time we got to DTD, I was sure we were going to be cutting it close for our appt. Keep in mind that the guys had the car so we had to make do… well, we waited and waited for the bus. It finally came. Then, it stopped at Pleasure Island and guess what?? They decided to do a shift and driver change!! :headache: We were also unaware that BW is the last stop of all five resorts. Needless to say, I was in shock and trying to call Bill Barchik to warn him of our lateness. I got his office and they had him call me on my cell and he actually told me not to worry and that he would wait for me!!!! That man is gold, pure gold =) :love: We actually arrived a full 45 minutes late and he waited on us and showed no irritation toward us. He was a perfect Disney cast member gentleman. I loved seeing the Attic; it was definitely the place for us. I took so many pictures, here are a few of them:
See the airplanes in the corner and my mom :)
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After we said goodbye to Bill, we met our men at Beaches and Cream, one of our favorites, of course. Mom and I never turn down an opportunity for a No Way Jose (sadly, no picture from this trip), here are some of us having fun at B&C though:
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Notice my dad's Pink Floyd shirt :cool2:
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and another couple of Disney fun pics:
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Yes, we are like Peter Pan :upsidedow
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The Italy courtyard looks beautiful! Great choice! can't wait to read more!
 
The next big planning event was the dress! Now to be honest, I had been looking on the web and in magazines for dresses since the moment we decided to do a tenth anni VR in July 2005. I would get mildly depressed fairly often about it. Part of me wanted a big, princess-y, poufy, Disney-ish dress but there were reasons that I felt like I would never find something like that for me. :(

The main roadblock is that most of those dresses are strapless or halter style. For twenty-four years, I have had autoimmune disease, including lupus for the past eight years. My skin is affected by its own autoimmune problem and it permanently disfigured my upper arms and shins and I have even had surgery on my arms which is the reason you will always see me in every picture with sleeves. I know, ‘tmi’ but it helps for me to tell y’all that because many people wonder and ask me in the heat of summer why I’m wearing longer sleeves. I even had a wedding guest I don’t know very well ask me at the welcome party…:rolleyes:

As a result, I had resisted going in to any bridal shops because I so rarely saw any bridal gowns with sleeves… I thought about bolero jackets and kept searching the web and I also considered a seamstress to design my own dress. Anyway, I saw an ad for a sale last summer at Parisian. They had a room called the Parisian Room which has evening wear (I say had because Belk’s bought them and Parisian no longer exists :headache: ). I thought I would run in there and just check out what was available. I went in and in ten minutes, I found my dress!!!!! :bride: I could not honestly believe it?! It is a beautiful color of peach and gold. It has a sleeveless gown with a matching jacket that was so lightweight and breathable. It was so very perfect for me! :lovestruc And…in a way, it looked a bit princess-y too because of the flowing chiffon upper layer. Would you like to know the most unbelievable part?? I got this dress at 75% off the original price!! It was so inexpensive; I am embarrassed to say how little I spent on it, lol!!! I told DH that I planned to shop for shoes, a purse, jewelry and a tiara because I was so frugal on the dress, haha!!:teacher: Well, here are a couple of pics of the dress:
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Those are beautiful pictures! That dress color looks fantastic on you and the flowers were very pretty too! Looking forward to hearing more details...
 
I agree, the color looks fantastic on you!! Great find!!
 
Those are beautiful pictures! That dress color looks fantastic on you and the flowers were very pretty too! Looking forward to hearing more details...

Thanks and I did love my flowers - Laura Kidd is wonderful! :lovestruc

love the dress and the color! Beautiful!:goodvibes

Thanks so much - it was my princess dress :bride:

I agree, the color looks fantastic on you!! Great find!!

Thank you! The dress was actually brighter than it appears in many of the pictures - I really loved it :goodvibes
 
I'm loving your story so far. Thank you for sharing pictures from your original wedding too. Bill is great :thumbsup2 He was our sales manager too and he was easy to work with for everything.

I love your dress; it was perfect and it looks beautiful in the setting at Italy. Looking forward to reading more from a fellow Epcot bride,
 
Planning session trip highlights: Jan 9 – Jan16, 2008
This was another wonderful trip with DH and I on our own staying in a studio at BWV! We arrived on Thursday;
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we walked right into Epcot for our ADR at Biergarten. We had a great time; I had not been here since 1985. Remember this picture of us that night as you will see it again later.
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Here is what I ate - Mmmmm!
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When I described the fun we had to my mom upon our return, we decided to plan a night at Biergarten during the vow renewal as well!!
We were here in January for another big purpose for me. I was about to run my first half-marathon ever!! We were busy off and on both Friday and Saturday with that excitement and we spent half of Sunday cheering all the full marathoners too!! Here are a couple of pics:
Me, right before the big race :eek:
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After the bananas and a shower, my post race meal :rotfl:
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I got a medal! :dance3: (hopefully my picture will right itself...)
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We visited the Magic Kingdom the day before our planning session and we enjoyed watching Spectromagic and Wishes that night. Since I had bought a new, pink, little camera for my half-marathon run, I was busy taking pictures of everything in sight. This is a picture of the castle which will figure into my planning later also…
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So, our planning session was on Jan 15, the last full day of our trip! I was so excited!! We drove over to Franck’s that morning for our 9am appt. I must have been nervous because I took a total of four pictures while we were there, LOL!
Here are two pics of the inside of Franck’s:
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The other two were cake porn, haha and I’ll just post one of them:
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We finally got to meet Michelle, our planner. Rick and I both liked her right away! She is very charming and personable – very funny too. I really loved the fact that she had her own DFTW at Disney so she is one of us!! I had sent pictures ahead of time of cakes that we liked to use as inspiration. This is our last email correspondence before we arrived on Tuesday and met:


Subject: Re: Cakes Pictures
Hi Michelle!

Finally, I am sending you a couple of cake pictures that I am attracted to. I really like whimsical (i.e.. Mad Hatter type cakes and vibrant colors) Basically, Rick and I are somewhat earthy and casual. A girlfriend at work says we belong in Berkeley, CA, lol! I think of us as moderate hippie types, ha-ha! When we eloped to WDW the first time, one of the matching shirts we bought on our honeymoon was our favorite. It had the symbols of Peace, Love and Mickey Mouse!! These symbols personify Disneyworld for us and our feelings about our marriage. We would love a cake that has these symbols on it as the main theme =) And then, here are some cake styles I like as well in the PDF files above. The fourth one may be harder to open for some reason but I was able to open it with Microsoft Picture manager.

Thanks again,
Lisa

Hi Lisa,
You are too cute :) I absolutely love the cake photos! So different and unique, I have not seen anything like it before. You are correct on the fourth cake photo. I was not able to open it, no matter what I tried (even Microsoft picture manager). Is there anyway you can print a color copy on your end and bring it with you to the Planning Session? Please let me know.

If there is anything else I can assist you with, please don't hesitate to contact me.

See you SOON!
Michelle



We laughed the most about the cake pictures we had provided. Michelle really understood that we wanted to meet but not exceed our minimums by much! The only minor disappointment I had before the session is that I asked about a dessert party rather late in the game and there wasn’t anything available for our date, incl. Fantasmic (which I would not have chosen anyway). We got re-married at a very busy time. It was just as well in hindsight as I was very happy with how the whole day turned out.

Laura Kidd came in about 12 noon or so and the four of us had even more fun as she is very down to earth as well. She had the most wonderful ideas about how to dress up our event without over spending. Little things made the difference like having colored napkins on the table and small centerpieces to avoid naked looking tables. It was just perfect for us and great looking in the Attic which is already full of color anyway. We just had the best time and DH summed it up best when he said that he enjoyed the whole planning session and he never thought he would, LOL!!!

Finally, because we all like food porn too and you never know where you might have a welcome party or a rehearsal dinner after all, here are some dining pics from Yak n’ Yeti, which we loved!!
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The yummiest egg rolls ever!!!! :lovestruc
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We split our entree and forgot to take a pic when it was pretty :rolleyes:
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After our meet with Michelle and Laura, we headed to Epcot and had a snack in the American Pavilion:
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We also had a great meal at Chefs de France that night to cap off our planning session trip!
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Lisa,
Just got caught up on your thread. I am lovin' it! I might reach out to later w/ DVC questions. I am impressed w/ how well your curls looked while running in Florida of all places! What product(s) were you using that day, Curly Redheaded sista friend?!! :rotfl:
 

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