Raenstoirm
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Sep 20, 2007
Little background---Dh and I were both essentially raised by single moms and both of mothers felt Disney was a great place to get away, so as children dh and both had "mommy and me" trips multiple times. Each trip was just mother and child. My mom and I did one trip that was not just the two of us (her sister, my cousin and my grandmother joined us in 1998) and although we did have fun, it was a bit of a disaster.
Since dh and I have been together, it has always been just the two of us on our annual WDW trips. Lately dh and I have been toying with the idea of making a mommy and me trip with both of our mothers. We are getting to the "baby phase" in our lives so this might be the only chance we have to take this kind of trip. Although our mothers get along fine, they have only seen each other a handful of times and aren't "friends." Has anyone attempted this feat? Did you survive? As I said, we dont have any children yet to act as a buffer so we are slightly concerned how much mommy time either of us can handle .
We cant afford 3 hotel rooms so they would have to share one. I was thinking maybe renting a 2 bedroom DVC. Although my mother-in-law has plenty of money, my mother does not, so we are planning on paying for all of it.
What do I have to take into consideration here? We would take them in either last sept (for our annual MNSSHP trip) or early December so they can see all the christmas stuff. Either way, it is a low week for crowds, so lines arent really a concern. They are both pretty easy going about food (my mil hates buffets, but I think my mom will get a kick out of a character meal, so she will have to deal with that). My mil is a get-up-at-noon person and my mother is a go-to-bed early person and dh and I are rather commando. I figure in the modern era of cell phones and the fact that they are grown-ups, they can meet up with us or leave us whenever they want to keep their own internal clocks happy. Although dh and I tend to go for 9 or 10 days, we would only go for 5 or so, since we are concerned too much mommy time will make one of us crack
Since dh and I have been together, it has always been just the two of us on our annual WDW trips. Lately dh and I have been toying with the idea of making a mommy and me trip with both of our mothers. We are getting to the "baby phase" in our lives so this might be the only chance we have to take this kind of trip. Although our mothers get along fine, they have only seen each other a handful of times and aren't "friends." Has anyone attempted this feat? Did you survive? As I said, we dont have any children yet to act as a buffer so we are slightly concerned how much mommy time either of us can handle .
We cant afford 3 hotel rooms so they would have to share one. I was thinking maybe renting a 2 bedroom DVC. Although my mother-in-law has plenty of money, my mother does not, so we are planning on paying for all of it.
What do I have to take into consideration here? We would take them in either last sept (for our annual MNSSHP trip) or early December so they can see all the christmas stuff. Either way, it is a low week for crowds, so lines arent really a concern. They are both pretty easy going about food (my mil hates buffets, but I think my mom will get a kick out of a character meal, so she will have to deal with that). My mil is a get-up-at-noon person and my mother is a go-to-bed early person and dh and I are rather commando. I figure in the modern era of cell phones and the fact that they are grown-ups, they can meet up with us or leave us whenever they want to keep their own internal clocks happy. Although dh and I tend to go for 9 or 10 days, we would only go for 5 or so, since we are concerned too much mommy time will make one of us crack