These threads are sometimes hard for me to read as even though it has been over 21 years, anything can set me off. Someone walking by wearing her fragrance, looking at my grandson thinking how she would have loved him, and to see my girls grow up and knowing how proud she would have been.....but then I think she knows this, she watches over us, I believe it in my heart... So to Mary and Leah and the rest of us who have lost their Moms.....believe it in your heart that they know how we are doing and that they watch over us. It is how I get through each day........I truly believe I get my strength from somewhere..