WDWsBFF
Everyday Disney Dreamer
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- May 18, 2011
I have a few guests who have sent in response cards with a plus two on them! Not a plus one, but two!!!
One guest who is a single friend of my fiance's wants to bring his mom and some guy friend. Some random guy friend I've NEVER even met. The invite was addressed to HIM ONLY.
Another case is with my fiance's aunt and cousin. They too plussed two but I know for a fact his aunt isn't bringing a date (she's being single forever) but his cousin is dating someone new (they're not even serious)who has a 5 year old daughter. Again the invite was specifically addressed to just the two of them only.
This is mainly a rant but good grief do I really HAVE to let them just do this to us?
My parents are kind enough to fund the wedding and it will cost $40 a plate! ....True we have yet to meet our requirement of 90 people so there is room but I'm sitting here thinking, "Do we really have to feed people we don't know nor want there?"
My parents do believe it's rude and are just kinda shrugging their shoulders at it saying it's okay....at least they think so. My fiance just rolls with things as they go.
....I'm the only one who is offended by it and really wants to tell them NO.
Should I shrug it off too and let people in that we don't know? Or should I take the reins back and let em know it ain't gonna happen?
Any advice/experiences on this matter? I really need my Disboard friends on this one! Thank you!
One guest who is a single friend of my fiance's wants to bring his mom and some guy friend. Some random guy friend I've NEVER even met. The invite was addressed to HIM ONLY.
Another case is with my fiance's aunt and cousin. They too plussed two but I know for a fact his aunt isn't bringing a date (she's being single forever) but his cousin is dating someone new (they're not even serious)who has a 5 year old daughter. Again the invite was specifically addressed to just the two of them only.
This is mainly a rant but good grief do I really HAVE to let them just do this to us?
My parents are kind enough to fund the wedding and it will cost $40 a plate! ....True we have yet to meet our requirement of 90 people so there is room but I'm sitting here thinking, "Do we really have to feed people we don't know nor want there?"
My parents do believe it's rude and are just kinda shrugging their shoulders at it saying it's okay....at least they think so. My fiance just rolls with things as they go.
....I'm the only one who is offended by it and really wants to tell them NO.
Should I shrug it off too and let people in that we don't know? Or should I take the reins back and let em know it ain't gonna happen?
Any advice/experiences on this matter? I really need my Disboard friends on this one! Thank you!