Bianca and Bernard
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jul 12, 2015
I've seen it happen during hurricanes. Many years ago (2004) when we had the triple-hit here in Florida I stood in line for ice because I needed it to salvage food. A lady behind me loudly boasted "I don't need it but free is free!". So yeah, I've seen it with my own eyes and I know it happens. I too like to think that those who need help get it and those that don't stay away, but sadly that's the state we live in nowadays.
It doesn't mean I don't help though. I am just aware of the reality.
https://www.ccpoj.org/
In Jacksonville, each year, there is a toy give away, for kids 12 and under. It's all from donations (whether the toys are donated or cash and then the toys are purchased). There are usually a lot of bikes, skates, skateboards, etc that are "won" as well as Barbies, Hot Wheels, etc....I mean, very very few dollar store toys. Not just one toy per kid, either. Last year they gave away 20,000 toys, 600 'wheeled items', and 50,000 Ja-Ru novelty toys to 4,000 kids (per their website). No sign ups, it's first come, first served.
There is no qualification required, other than being a resident of NE FL. They used to not make you bring the kids (so they could be surprised), but people were seriously going through, getting the toys and then either returning to the store for money or selling the toys online. Now, the kids have to come, and it's one time through the line. Yes, people would go through, go drop their haul in their cars, then come back for more. There have been fights in line, over the toys, over who was there first, etc.
One year, when DH and I were both out of work, we considered going up to get DS some toys (DDs were too old). I got up, turned on the news, saw the line was several thousand people long, and decided that he could be happy with the few toys we were able to get. If we had had nothing for DS, I would have sucked it up and went down.