crazy_cremello
Listen to your Mumsy
- Joined
- Jun 17, 2008
I’ve posted on the U.K. boards already regarding my frustrating situation: my usual Disney pals are my parents but they want to experience other places. My boyfriend wants to save for a house and move out. And my friends either don’t like the idea of Disney or don’t want to spend so much money on a holiday
So I’ve been thinking about just going ahead and doing it solo next year. Not phased about doing things by myself as I managed to travel around Canada alone 3 years ago. My only concern is that, since I’ve been with my family on every other trip, would I feel really lonely and sad doing things without them? I know for a fact watching Illuminations will be really tough if my mum and dad aren’t there. But I don’t feel like I have many other options right now if I’m that desperate to go?
I also feel really stuck about my OH wanting to do adult stuff when I’m 24 years old and still live at home. Should I be more concerned about having a mortgage and moving out? My parents have always said they’re in no rush for me to leave and they want me to experience everything I want to do without feeling pressured - can’t help feel as though maybe I should be growing up and getting houses and things. I don’t want to spend my money on such things yet though! Only have 1 friend saving up for a house, all the others are still at home at the same age!
Wasn’t quite expecting to be coming here for a councilling session but here I am. Just really sad that I want to do a trip so badly and nothing seems to be on my side!
So I’ve been thinking about just going ahead and doing it solo next year. Not phased about doing things by myself as I managed to travel around Canada alone 3 years ago. My only concern is that, since I’ve been with my family on every other trip, would I feel really lonely and sad doing things without them? I know for a fact watching Illuminations will be really tough if my mum and dad aren’t there. But I don’t feel like I have many other options right now if I’m that desperate to go?
I also feel really stuck about my OH wanting to do adult stuff when I’m 24 years old and still live at home. Should I be more concerned about having a mortgage and moving out? My parents have always said they’re in no rush for me to leave and they want me to experience everything I want to do without feeling pressured - can’t help feel as though maybe I should be growing up and getting houses and things. I don’t want to spend my money on such things yet though! Only have 1 friend saving up for a house, all the others are still at home at the same age!
Wasn’t quite expecting to be coming here for a councilling session but here I am. Just really sad that I want to do a trip so badly and nothing seems to be on my side!