I just wanted to say Hi and Congratulations!! I wasn't a Disney bride but I did honeymoon there and I love reading through wedding PJ's. The gazebo area at the Shades of Green looks beautiful, I can't wait to see wedding pictures
As far as
Disneyland, I say go for it!! I went there after I had already been to WDW but I still had a wonderful time. I think it would be awesome to spend your honeymoon there and then take your little girl when she gets older. It will give you two very special memories at the same place.
Lastly, I love your bridesmaid dress style. And I think the peridot/sage color is beautiful. I wore it in a friends wedding and it was very complimenting to all our skin tones (we ranged from me=ghost white to MOH=looks tan all year round). I think it is a great color choice, especially for an outdoor summer wedding.
Can't wait to read more updates!!