Rachandgarry
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- Joined
- Feb 13, 2011
Hi!
I was just trying to reply to another post, and found myself including waaaay too much background info than was necessary (how unusual for me to talk to much ) and deleted it all. I found myself quite sad deleting it, because it had made me happy re-living all those memories and sharing them.
So, I thought I would indulge myself and start a thread so I can share those memories, and hopefully if you'll all join in with me, feel the warm Disney glow from your stories too! There's no format, no structure, just whatever you want to say about Disney.
So.... we are family of 3, live in Bristol, UK and adore WDW and all things Disney. There's me -Rachel, 36, my DH Garry also 36, and our DS Matthew, now 5 1/2. I've been to WDW a bunch of times, both my parents worked for an airline and they first took me to WDW when I was 7 - Epcot had only been open a few months, I can barely remember that park, just the main entrance we drove through. I very clearly remember the MK and Bay Lake, the Polynesian and Contemporary - I was absolutely fixated by them. I have no idea where we stayed - it would have been in a motel on the 192 I imagine. I grew up not riding any fast rides, as my parents didn't like them - even things like Big Thunder and Splash. My favourite thing back then was the Country Bear Jamboree; the story goes that after the show I ran down to the front to ask if the bear wanted to come to my house for tea.
We went back a couple of times during my childhood, it sounds showy-offy now but the economy was different back then. Our flights were always free because of their jobs, and many airline staff tend to have villas in various countries because it is so easy for them to get there cheaply each time. We didn't have anywhere near that much money but we did have some fantastic holidays in friends' villas!
I remember going back when in 1992 when I was 16, we have a video of it and to watch it, I find it so odd because so much has changed, yet strangely comforting because so much hasn't. We stayed at the Holiday Inn Nikki Bird, on the 192, and some of our video was of the gift shops around it - nothing looks any different. It brings it home to me that this thing I crave day and night, this mecca (Orlando) - exists, even when I'm not there.
Video cameras weren't as common then, and we borrowed my Uncle's. On our video you can hear my Dad saying "slowly Rachel, just pan round slowly..." followed by his constant commentary about random things and a fully audible conversation with my Mum . Our suitcases look so ancient, and I couldn't fit into any of the clothes now, lol - in fact I think if you actually sewed them all together they still wouldn't go round me!
Sadly, my mum died in 1995, very young, from cancer. She was my best friend, and shared my intense love of Disney. In my heart, she was inextricably linked to WDW and one without the other seemed wrong.
After a couple of years, I went in to the travel industry myself and decided to go back. I went in 1997, and in 1998 I spent 6 months out there staying with a friend so had an AP and went to the parks like every other day - popped to the Beach Club for an ice-cream, met friends for dinner at the Poly etc. It was total bliss! I missed it greatly, but managed to go back 3 times in 2000, twice in 2001, and so on. We went with DH's whole family in 2004 - which was a complete and unrivalled disaster. Too many cooks and all that. Never, ever again. I could happily vacation with his parents, or his brother and family, but not all of them together. There are still wounds that haven't healed completely from that trip, but then I do hold on to things a bit too long sometimes lol.
DH and I had a rough year in 2005, we were told we would never be able to have children other than by IVF or adoption. We decided that we would let nature take its course, and promptly invested in lots of hi-tech stuff for our house, booked lots of swanky holidays etc.... embraced the childless life shall we say ! One of these holidays, was in December 2005 - we did a road trip where we flew in to Sanford, drove up through Georgia, South Carolina, then North Carolina, up to Nashville, and Dollywood, then back south through Chattanooga, then Alabama and back down to Florida for a week at Disney, leaving there on 23rd December. It was an amazing trip but a couple of days in to the Orlando part, I was feeling really rough. We thought it was motion sickness from the rides but I had never ever had this problem before, perhaps I was coming down with flu or something, or I was just tired. Even on the flight home I was really poorly. To cut a very long story short, it turns out that despite numerous medical tests etc that I was actually already 3 months pregnant, lol! That's why I'd been feeling so rough! So, DS has kind of been to WDW - just stowed away!
We haven't been back since then - partly finances but partly also because DS has had a lot of medical problems.
Last year we went on our first family Disney holiday to Disneyland Paris - it was so magical! He absolutely adores the place - the characters, the rides, everything about it. He's totally my son hehehe!
We went to DLP again earlier this month, and had an ok time, but it was really really cold so a lot of rides were broken down and there were no characters out, so it wasn't quite the trip we'd expected.
We are off to DLP again for June half term, DH's parents are coming with us this time which is nice, they will get to enjoy DS's reactions!
We are really hoping to take DS next Easter, to WDW. He seems ready, and I don't want to leave it too long so the magic of the characters goes. We could do with it being the following year - but a) he'd been older than I'd like for his first trip and b) I can't wait that long . We can't afford to go, but I just don't care - DS is a miracle baby for us, and I'd rather take out a loan and capture this time in his life, than miss it. My mum's untimely death taught me that life often is too short - and you never know what is around the corner - so (within reason) do what you want now because no-one's dying wish was ever "I wish I'd saved more..." or "I wish I'd done more housework..." Making happy memories is what life is all about for me.
Oops, I've gone on for far too long! I bet no-one even reads this now and I'll look like a real Billy No-Mates! Note to self: even if no-one does read it, it has been very therapeutic writing it down.
to all!
Rachel x
I was just trying to reply to another post, and found myself including waaaay too much background info than was necessary (how unusual for me to talk to much ) and deleted it all. I found myself quite sad deleting it, because it had made me happy re-living all those memories and sharing them.
So, I thought I would indulge myself and start a thread so I can share those memories, and hopefully if you'll all join in with me, feel the warm Disney glow from your stories too! There's no format, no structure, just whatever you want to say about Disney.
So.... we are family of 3, live in Bristol, UK and adore WDW and all things Disney. There's me -Rachel, 36, my DH Garry also 36, and our DS Matthew, now 5 1/2. I've been to WDW a bunch of times, both my parents worked for an airline and they first took me to WDW when I was 7 - Epcot had only been open a few months, I can barely remember that park, just the main entrance we drove through. I very clearly remember the MK and Bay Lake, the Polynesian and Contemporary - I was absolutely fixated by them. I have no idea where we stayed - it would have been in a motel on the 192 I imagine. I grew up not riding any fast rides, as my parents didn't like them - even things like Big Thunder and Splash. My favourite thing back then was the Country Bear Jamboree; the story goes that after the show I ran down to the front to ask if the bear wanted to come to my house for tea.
We went back a couple of times during my childhood, it sounds showy-offy now but the economy was different back then. Our flights were always free because of their jobs, and many airline staff tend to have villas in various countries because it is so easy for them to get there cheaply each time. We didn't have anywhere near that much money but we did have some fantastic holidays in friends' villas!
I remember going back when in 1992 when I was 16, we have a video of it and to watch it, I find it so odd because so much has changed, yet strangely comforting because so much hasn't. We stayed at the Holiday Inn Nikki Bird, on the 192, and some of our video was of the gift shops around it - nothing looks any different. It brings it home to me that this thing I crave day and night, this mecca (Orlando) - exists, even when I'm not there.
Video cameras weren't as common then, and we borrowed my Uncle's. On our video you can hear my Dad saying "slowly Rachel, just pan round slowly..." followed by his constant commentary about random things and a fully audible conversation with my Mum . Our suitcases look so ancient, and I couldn't fit into any of the clothes now, lol - in fact I think if you actually sewed them all together they still wouldn't go round me!
Sadly, my mum died in 1995, very young, from cancer. She was my best friend, and shared my intense love of Disney. In my heart, she was inextricably linked to WDW and one without the other seemed wrong.
After a couple of years, I went in to the travel industry myself and decided to go back. I went in 1997, and in 1998 I spent 6 months out there staying with a friend so had an AP and went to the parks like every other day - popped to the Beach Club for an ice-cream, met friends for dinner at the Poly etc. It was total bliss! I missed it greatly, but managed to go back 3 times in 2000, twice in 2001, and so on. We went with DH's whole family in 2004 - which was a complete and unrivalled disaster. Too many cooks and all that. Never, ever again. I could happily vacation with his parents, or his brother and family, but not all of them together. There are still wounds that haven't healed completely from that trip, but then I do hold on to things a bit too long sometimes lol.
DH and I had a rough year in 2005, we were told we would never be able to have children other than by IVF or adoption. We decided that we would let nature take its course, and promptly invested in lots of hi-tech stuff for our house, booked lots of swanky holidays etc.... embraced the childless life shall we say ! One of these holidays, was in December 2005 - we did a road trip where we flew in to Sanford, drove up through Georgia, South Carolina, then North Carolina, up to Nashville, and Dollywood, then back south through Chattanooga, then Alabama and back down to Florida for a week at Disney, leaving there on 23rd December. It was an amazing trip but a couple of days in to the Orlando part, I was feeling really rough. We thought it was motion sickness from the rides but I had never ever had this problem before, perhaps I was coming down with flu or something, or I was just tired. Even on the flight home I was really poorly. To cut a very long story short, it turns out that despite numerous medical tests etc that I was actually already 3 months pregnant, lol! That's why I'd been feeling so rough! So, DS has kind of been to WDW - just stowed away!
We haven't been back since then - partly finances but partly also because DS has had a lot of medical problems.
Last year we went on our first family Disney holiday to Disneyland Paris - it was so magical! He absolutely adores the place - the characters, the rides, everything about it. He's totally my son hehehe!
We went to DLP again earlier this month, and had an ok time, but it was really really cold so a lot of rides were broken down and there were no characters out, so it wasn't quite the trip we'd expected.
We are off to DLP again for June half term, DH's parents are coming with us this time which is nice, they will get to enjoy DS's reactions!
We are really hoping to take DS next Easter, to WDW. He seems ready, and I don't want to leave it too long so the magic of the characters goes. We could do with it being the following year - but a) he'd been older than I'd like for his first trip and b) I can't wait that long . We can't afford to go, but I just don't care - DS is a miracle baby for us, and I'd rather take out a loan and capture this time in his life, than miss it. My mum's untimely death taught me that life often is too short - and you never know what is around the corner - so (within reason) do what you want now because no-one's dying wish was ever "I wish I'd saved more..." or "I wish I'd done more housework..." Making happy memories is what life is all about for me.
Oops, I've gone on for far too long! I bet no-one even reads this now and I'll look like a real Billy No-Mates! Note to self: even if no-one does read it, it has been very therapeutic writing it down.
to all!
Rachel x