kdonnel
DVC-BCV
- Joined
- Feb 1, 2001
My daughter is moving out and starting her own life. The lease has been signed and move in is scheduled for this coming weekend.
That past weekend we were helping her set up her classroom as she starts her career as a teacher. While there we met a friend of hers from college and her parents who were doing the same for their daughter.
We ended up having a conversation with the parents.
The father mentioned that his daughter has asked if she could be placed on gradual release, her way of asking if she could continue to receive monetary help.
I thought it was a great term for how parents continue to help their adult children.
My daughter is moving in with 3 roommates. Splitting the cost of a rental home with 3 others should make her transition from college student to young adult smoother from a financial perspective.
At today's prices and starting teacher salaries I don't think she could afford to rent even a one bedroom apartment by herself, certainly not the $2450 plus utilities that the 3 bedroom house is costing.
I am keeping her on my health insurance as it does not cost me anything for her to remain but would cost her about $150 a month. The same applies to dental insurance, she will remain on mine since there is no cost associated(I would get no savings if I dropped her as a dependent).
The same goes for her cell phone. It only costs $20 a month for her to remain on my plan but would cost $80 or more a month.
I am sure there other items that will come up as well.
How much help did you continue to provide your adult children and for how long?
How sudden or gradual was the release?
That past weekend we were helping her set up her classroom as she starts her career as a teacher. While there we met a friend of hers from college and her parents who were doing the same for their daughter.
We ended up having a conversation with the parents.
The father mentioned that his daughter has asked if she could be placed on gradual release, her way of asking if she could continue to receive monetary help.
I thought it was a great term for how parents continue to help their adult children.
My daughter is moving in with 3 roommates. Splitting the cost of a rental home with 3 others should make her transition from college student to young adult smoother from a financial perspective.
At today's prices and starting teacher salaries I don't think she could afford to rent even a one bedroom apartment by herself, certainly not the $2450 plus utilities that the 3 bedroom house is costing.
I am keeping her on my health insurance as it does not cost me anything for her to remain but would cost her about $150 a month. The same applies to dental insurance, she will remain on mine since there is no cost associated(I would get no savings if I dropped her as a dependent).
The same goes for her cell phone. It only costs $20 a month for her to remain on my plan but would cost $80 or more a month.
I am sure there other items that will come up as well.
How much help did you continue to provide your adult children and for how long?
How sudden or gradual was the release?