When we went back in 2005 we were on the free DDP, my 2 ds were 10 & 11 and not big eaters. We went to a wide variety of TS resteraunts and we just paid out of pocket for their meals and any wine or beer that we had. The only time we did not use this approach was when we ate at Chef Mickey's or at the Biergarten in Germany.
When we go next week, my DS (who is 13 now) is still a fairly picky eater & I am hoping to order chicken fingers/burgers off the kiddies menu for him if we go anywhere exotic.