Brier Rose
<font color=9999FF>The Tag Fairy prefers to remain
- Joined
- Aug 13, 2002
Here's the problem....DD wanted to bring her best friend with her to WDW this year, so I asked her mother before we said anything.
The Mother said that she wouldn't have a problem with it,unless we went to war(this was before). Well as you all know,the war is over,but her Mother will only say that it probably won't be a problem for her to go. Why won't she give me a straight answer?? We are leaving June 21. I know money is not an issue.We already explained to her Mother that we will cover everything.I know she wouldn't be able to go otherwise.She is one of 5 kids that this Mother is raising alone.Very low income.This poor girls parents just got divorced earlier this year.The Dad was hurt horribly in an accident,and got hooked on pain killers.After 3 failed attempts at rehab she decided to call it quits,and they haven't seen their Dad since.On top of that she has always been homeschooled,so this has been her first year in "regular" school, because her Mom had to go to work full time.
The kicker for me is how strict the Mother is.DD's friends schedule is like this....Leave for school,it takes her an hour to walk to the bus stop and catch the bus in the mornings, she gets home from school at 4:30pm and immediatly does homework,then she has a list of chores that have to be completed everday before one of her sisters cooks supper,and then SHE has to wash the dishes,take a bath,and go to bed. On Saturday's all the kids have "Saturday" chores,and then on Sunday it's Church 3 times a day!!
Her Mom was supposed to give me an answer tonight,but then said she'll have to think about it some more because today,after the little girl got home from school,did 5 loads of laundry,AND folded it,SHE DIDN"T PUT THEM AWAY!!!
What does the Mother do???? She has anew boyfriend,that has taken to acting like their dad in that he likes to give orders.
I want to CRY!!! You would not believe how sweet this little girl is.This is breaking my heart.I wish now we would have never said anything about her going.The thought of her getting her hopes up and them having them crushed.....I just can't stand it.
Sorry this is so long...I'm just really down.
The Mother said that she wouldn't have a problem with it,unless we went to war(this was before). Well as you all know,the war is over,but her Mother will only say that it probably won't be a problem for her to go. Why won't she give me a straight answer?? We are leaving June 21. I know money is not an issue.We already explained to her Mother that we will cover everything.I know she wouldn't be able to go otherwise.She is one of 5 kids that this Mother is raising alone.Very low income.This poor girls parents just got divorced earlier this year.The Dad was hurt horribly in an accident,and got hooked on pain killers.After 3 failed attempts at rehab she decided to call it quits,and they haven't seen their Dad since.On top of that she has always been homeschooled,so this has been her first year in "regular" school, because her Mom had to go to work full time.
The kicker for me is how strict the Mother is.DD's friends schedule is like this....Leave for school,it takes her an hour to walk to the bus stop and catch the bus in the mornings, she gets home from school at 4:30pm and immediatly does homework,then she has a list of chores that have to be completed everday before one of her sisters cooks supper,and then SHE has to wash the dishes,take a bath,and go to bed. On Saturday's all the kids have "Saturday" chores,and then on Sunday it's Church 3 times a day!!
Her Mom was supposed to give me an answer tonight,but then said she'll have to think about it some more because today,after the little girl got home from school,did 5 loads of laundry,AND folded it,SHE DIDN"T PUT THEM AWAY!!!
What does the Mother do???? She has anew boyfriend,that has taken to acting like their dad in that he likes to give orders.
I want to CRY!!! You would not believe how sweet this little girl is.This is breaking my heart.I wish now we would have never said anything about her going.The thought of her getting her hopes up and them having them crushed.....I just can't stand it.
Sorry this is so long...I'm just really down.