Not true. Every adolescent does not need that much sleep. One of my DD's does absolutely fine on 6-7 hours.A growing adolescent does. He needs to sleep regardless if he wants to or not. He doesn't even know what is best for himself.
Why would you give him sleep medication to force him to sleep when he doesn't want to? That sounds crazy to me. He's no different than most teenagers.TheZue,
Maybe he should go on sleep meds. In my own experience teen years were sooo hard in terms of sleeping. Sleep meds helped me, maybe they canhelp him too.
My kids were not even home from practices by that time on a lot of nights when they were that age. That seems really early for an 11-12 year old.Wow--my kids have it rough ! Our oldest is 11.5 and lights out is between 8 and 8:30. He wakes up around 6:00.
Wow--my kids have it rough ! Our oldest is 11.5 and lights out is between 8 and 8:30. He wakes up around 6:00. My younger kids are in bed between 7 and 7:30 and also get up around 6:00. They are all very happy and rarely sick so I'm hoping the sleep they get has something to do with that!
If he has aspirations beyond high school and wants to pursue a career, then he needs to get to bed earlier. If he just wants to 'get a job' after high-school, then he can just maintain the current track. It is up to him, but gosh, you have a lot of input at this point.
Please, continue with encouragement of an earlier bedtime. Nothing, and I mean nothing good, comes from staying up most of the night.
If it were my kid, I'd make him go to his room at 10:30, with no electronic distractions--no TV, no computer, no video games, no cell phone. If he wants to read quietly until he feels sleepy, fine.
I read a study recently that when kids hit their teen years, their sleeping schedule shifts. They naturally won't get tired til later, and will sleep later. The study was talking about how moving the high school start time back an hour decreases tardies and truency. So his changing sleep schedule is biological. Something to think about!
My 12 year old is also in bed by 8:30 and 9 at the latest most nights. She has to get up at 6 am. It is a rush to get homework done with all the activities we do, but it's a health issue as far as I'm concerned.
Wow--my kids have it rough ! Our oldest is 11.5 and lights out is between 8 and 8:30. He wakes up around 6:00. My younger kids are in bed between 7 and 7:30 and also get up around 6:00. They are all very happy and rarely sick so I'm hoping the sleep they get has something to do with that!
If he has aspirations beyond high school and wants to pursue a career, then he needs to get to bed earlier. If he just wants to 'get a job' after high-school, then he can just maintain the current track. It is up to him, but gosh, you have a lot of input at this point.
Please, continue with encouragement of an earlier bedtime. Nothing, and I mean nothing good, comes from staying up most of the night.
I read a study recently that when kids hit their teen years, their sleeping schedule shifts. They naturally won't get tired til later, and will sleep later. The study was talking about how moving the high school start time back an hour decreases tardies and truency. So his changing sleep schedule is biological. Something to think about!
If he has aspirations beyond high school and wants to pursue a career, then he needs to get to bed earlier. If he just wants to 'get a job' after high-school, then he can just maintain the current track. It is up to him, but gosh, you have a lot of input at this point.
Please, continue with encouragement of an earlier bedtime. Nothing, and I mean nothing good, comes from staying up most of the night.
Absolutely agree with this. A kid may be able to stay up ONCE in a while with no electronic stimulation, but not night after night.
I read a study recently that when kids hit their teen years, their sleeping schedule shifts. They naturally won't get tired til later, and will sleep later. The study was talking about how moving the high school start time back an hour decreases tardies and truency. So his changing sleep schedule is biological. Something to think about!