I am so very very sorry
@LuvvsMickey.
I am going to concentrate on adding some suggestions, knowing you are there at the Polynesian already.
With all my notes please know I am not ignoring what a difficult time this is for you and your husband.
And you might know all of this already ----
*for such a trip you at least have picked the best resort. Easy access to other resorts - relaxing vegetation - great staff - time at Oasis pool even if you don't swim. And if the monorail goes out and the small boats are cramped don't forget the TTC/MK boat is practically at the DVC side of the Polynesian
*Twilight Feast can be ordered through room service. If you still have an appetite with you it is the 'Ohana meal right in your room. Any room service is exquisitely prepared at that resort. And this one will give you a ton of leftovers - for times you simply want to hang out in your room. Honestly every morning I would splurge on room service for breakfast. Relaxing and exquisitely prepared.
*If you would like wine/beer/cocktail room service at the Polynesian will deliver a drinks only order to your room
*the walk to the Grand Floridian is peaceful and beautiful. The second Poly beach closest to the GF is great for fireworks (unless you are already in a LV unit).
* And the QS outside seating area at the GF, when the storm passes, is so lovely.
*Get your hair done at the GF or WL. I have never done this and even if you aren't that kind of person might be nice for you to pass time. Do some spa time - nails etc. I am smiling as I type cause this part is so out of my wheelhouse but why not!?!?!
*Being alone any active/distracting type of meal might be best - ie. a show. I don't have children unfortunately, but I often book the step-sisters' dinner at 1900 Park Fare regardless - every couple of vacations. It is so entertaining to watch everyone. Their darling mother is the best! I love the hilarity of the intensely sarcastic. Might be a nice brain break for you. And so much goes right over the heads of the wee ones.
*There is a lovely terrace in the GF. South side. Second floor. Looking out to the pool and VGF. It was a smoking terrace but there is rarely anyone sitting there.
*The Boardwalk porch gives that same feeling
*When the weather breaks consider a
MNSSHP ticket. A place just to blend in. If you have never been that parade is worth it. If you have been that parade seen over and over is still worth it!! And I have no love for parades. But that parade - love me a villian. EDIT: Whoops! I believe I read something blasphemous like not liking Halloween. My apologies.
*The Boardwalk gives a feel of not feeling alone or looking alone (not anything wrong with that it is just nice to blend in some days)
*Tour the DVC BW rooms if they are still there
*When the weather improves the SAB pool bar is accessible without staying there
Epcot - outdoor QS patio of the steps in Japan is gorgeous. Morocco's Spice Road table might be a nice spot alone
*If you have zero interest in something like HDDR alone be there outside when the performers go in. Years ago I saw the entrance by accident (after the diners have all gone in) and it truly was a mini-show. I also love me a drink and a Fort Wilderness rocking chair!
*Don't forget there are tours at WL and AKL. AKL - I believe there are some free culinary tours. And cultural tours as well
*WL so much to do and see.
*Tour the new Riviera models and give your husband a nice distraction for his day.
*many lounges at WDW.
*Don't forget bar dinner seating with no reservations a la 50s Prime Time - California Grill - Homecomin' etc
*outside terrace when the weather improves at Brown Derby
*check out the new areas at Coronado. So busy with single convention goers another great place to blend in
*movie theatre at Downtown Disney
*F & W is a plus for being solo
*I find both of the QS at Port Orleans relaxing - especially sitting outside. Lovely boat ride to DD. Eat at Port Orleans Riverside and walk the river and have dessert at French Quarter or vice versa.
*Oh! When the storm passes take every boat you can.
*park tickets - don't know if you have picked them up or started them yet. But last vacation I clearly saw when I arrived that I needed a different kind of vacation, ie. quieter time - resort time. GS worked with me. I stored my tickets and switched them into a future AP and did a
MVMCP and After Hours instead. EDIT whoops part deux - just realized you've already started your passes.
*Try Southwest when you get home re: your husband's voucher. They are a great company
In general just greet each day there as it comes. Whatever the vacation there will be, it will be. I think the worse is trying to force things. You might see things at WDW alone that you might never taken in with your husband. Obviously the best is being there with him but just do whatever each day brings - even if that means simply hanging out at the resort.
I hope you are doing "okay". Love sent to you.
Lisa