My 5yr old is allergic to tree nuts and most likely to peanuts, though its not confirmed yet. We were thrilled at how wonderful Disney was. Because of the severity of DS's allergy, DD is also considered allergic (she's 4). Going on vacation the first time was scary, but we felt comfortable immediately!
Last year, we went to:
-Ohana's- excellent! chef came out and walked us through what was safe and what may not be...offered to make us substitutes for the kids (not needed though!)
-Crystal Palace- excellent! chef walked the buffet with me and told me what was safe and what was not. Lots of things for the kiddos
-Chef Mickeys- AWFUL. The chef was angry because CRO didnt note allergies on our reservation. He treated us horribly and the kids were unable to eat anything for dessert. No substitutes were offered at all and we will NEVER go back there, we felt awful the entire time, like we were too much trouble for them
-All Star Sports Food Court- excellent! we had tons to eat, they offered substitutes, used clean utensils for serving etc
-Norway (Princess breakfast)- the chef came to our table and went through the menu with us. Only one item wasn't safe for DD and he made her a special sweet. She was thrilled- he presented it dramatically referring to her as princess and although she didn't eat it, she made me take it with her and carry it back to the hotel (I finally was able to throw it out onthe last day of vacation, lol)
There were a few more and were fine too. For us, at this age and allergy level, there is no place better than Disney. For the first time, the kids were treated well not badly because of thier allergies. I hope your expereince is as wonderful. I'd definatley, since its not a common allergy, contact the person in charge to make sure that they are prepared.
One funny: we need a special dessert for DS as he's turning 6 on our next vacation (we leave next Saturday, 6 days to go!). I called the Crystal Palace to talk about a nut-free dessert special for him. The woman on the other end couldn't understand the difference between NUT Free and NOT free (as in we have to pay for it). OMG, it was awful. We'll deal with it when we get there as they have more than a week. LOL
Bri