Thanks so much Gretel for sharing your experiences. DH does not really want to rent a tux and if he was the only one dressed up in one, he probably wouldn't be too happy with me. Personally, I wouldn't care what other people wore. I want to feel like a princess and dress up but maybe we'll take it down a notch and he can wear a nice suit and I'll find a nice cocktail dress. I'll bet we'll still look great.
I am a little disappointed to know people are not dressing nicely for the restaurants in the evening on the shorter cruises. It would seem like part of the fun experience to me. Being my first cruise, I have visions of "Love Boat" in my head with everyone dressed fancy at meal times dining with Captain Stubbing. Silly I guess, but I do appreciate your letting me know how it is on the ship.