Magpie
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Oct 27, 2007
We give my son a set amount for spending on trips too because otherwise he wants everything. With a budget, he is more careful about what he "needs" to buy. If my family had the dining plan, our budget for the week would be under $500. $50 for my son's souvenir budget, $20 or less for DH and I to pick out a magnet or Christmas ornament, which is the only souvenir we buy ourselves on trips, and the rest for alcoholic beverages. I figure 1 or 2 drinks per day, per adult totals $40 or less per day.
This is also what we do, with the exception that I don't drink, so neither does my husband (even though I wouldn't mind if he did!). We're not big shoppers, any of us.
The kids would save up their own money for the trip, and then we'd top it up with a 50 ourselves.
My husband and I would typically get just one souvenir - maybe a hoodie for me, or a golf shirt for him. Something we can use.
Having money in their own hands meant the kids were very careful about picking their souvenirs. They were free to spend it all at once, but they never did. They frequently chose to save their money, getting only a small treat, if anything. We were fine with that - if they didn't buy anything on vacation, the money was still theirs to spend as they liked when they got home.
My mother didn't quite grasp that concept - when she was growing up, she never had any money of her own. So she got quite upset with our son, when he refused to spend all his souvenir money on a trip to New York with her, saying, "But if you don't spend it, your father's just going to take it away from you when you get home!" My poor husband, who never would have dreamed of doing any such thing, was quite offended when our son called home that night to confirm that his money was really his to keep!