StitchesGr8Fan
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- Jul 17, 2009
I saved you from getting fired. Your next boss might not be so understanding.
To my middle son,
I TOLD YOU SO!
Currently he is in the ER getting a ct scan because he refused to listen to me regarding climbing on the table.Biting your tongue on a well deserved I told you so is sooooo hard to do. Kudos
Currently he is in the ER getting a ct scan because he refused to listen to me regarding climbing on the table.
He has a concussion. No tv or video games for 2 days. Heaven help me! But I am thankful. It could have been a lot worse.I hope he’s ok.
C. Did you really think they would pay you back? When you loan someone money you have to have the mind set that you are giving it to then.B You keep wondering why I don't talk to you any more. Well did you ever stop to think that maybe it is because when you ask me what I think you always criticize my answer. After so many times of being called dumb or stupid just because I don't agree with you makes me not want to talk to you anymore. When I did tell you why I wasn't talking to you and you reacted by saying I was just making it all about me really makes me not want to talk to you. I wish I had followed my gut all those years ago but I was scared and afraid. Also all those things you think about ***** it isn't true. You need to get over your pride and realize that they tried and you are the one who makes everything difficult.
O Stop complaining that everything is someone else's fault. I get that you had a traumatic experience when you were growing up but get some help and take some responsibility.
C When you asked me to help you out and said you would pay me later when you can and I agreed I didn't mean I would do it all for free. You really hurt me when you got mad at me for asking for the money you owed me. I never would have said yes if I had known I was going to lose my best friend over it.
C. Did you really think they would pay you back? When you loan someone money you have to have the mind set that you are giving it to then.
C When you asked me to help you out and said you would pay me later when you can and I agreed I didn't mean I would do it all for free. You really hurt me when you got mad at me for asking for the money you owed me. I never would have said yes if I had known I was going to lose my best friend over it.
Seems like that one would be better off said (gently and kindly).The reason why I hang out in our bedroom at night, and away from you, is because I cannot (sober) sit in the same room as you, night after night watching you down a bottle of wine. Every night. Watching you pack on the weight and no physical activity. It’s depressing. Golden Years here we come.
One would think, right? I have said it. He tells me that he appreciates me not nagging.Seems like that one would be better off said (gently and kindly).