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By mid afternoon it is very hot or the afternoon thunderstorm will roll in.
But thunderstorm time is the best time as those made from sugar run out of the park.
By mid afternoon it is very hot or the afternoon thunderstorm will roll in.
Exactly. After all that cooking and cleaning, who wants to go back to the parks. If someone was taking my daughter on a trip like this, I would definitely be helping out more that what the friends parents are doing. Since I don't trust teens with the cash, I will give a savings card with a pin so in case they lose the card they are not out any $$. Instruct the girls to treat for dinner a few nights or buy groceries.Oh and this is assuming you don't have to really cook and minimal cleanup.
Ugh. Who wants to do all of that while on vacation. You go to disney to slave away in a kitchen for some teenage girls. Sounds like fun. I would go to publix/fresh market and buy some pre-made meals like roasted chicken, premade pizzas, etc. Hell, teen girls would be happy with papa johns pizza which is cheap. Perhaps these girls should bring some of their own money so the poor OP does not have to treat everyone. What will happen is that they will be in the parks all day and mom will be so tired that they end up going to one of the counter service restaurants where she will end up spending about $60 on the 4 of them.
To each their own. When I go on vacation I like to go out and try different things than cook in a kitchen. When we go to Disney, we drive since we live close( 2.5 hrs). We usually stay onsite and leave the resort to eat since there are a lot of great restaurants outside of Disney. In celebration there is a really good sushi restaurant and Spanish restaurant. I may bring some water into the park or some snacks for my daughter but that's it. We cook at home a lot and our only chance to go out to eat is when we go on vacation.Well, we can agree to disagree about slaving away. Steaks/chicken--BBQ or cook the meat (takes less than 10 minutes including resting time), open a bag of premade salad, slice up some crusty bread. Not any harder than convenience food, and much faster and easier than getting to an ADR, waiting 20+minutes to get in etc.) Same with anything put in the crockpot in the morning. At home, dinner may take me an hour or more to put together since I'm an avid cook. On vacation, it's 10 minutes.
What I would NOT do is go to publix while on vacation. Grocery delivery: I sit in the lobby by bell services and read a book, have an adult beverage, etc. and my grocery order is brought to me. If you don't order any alcohol, you don't even have to be there to sign for it. Super easy. We do travel to WDW or DLR in Aug/Sept, when it's really hot, so we're not in the parks in the mid-late afternoon anyway. Cooking in the condo is probably a lot easier w/ DVC than being offsite, just because of transportation issues. However, OP said she planned on cooking and asked for suggestions. I know a lot of people don't want to cook on vacation, but for us, eating out or eating prepackaged food for a week or two gets really tiring.
and much faster and easier than getting to an ADR, waiting 20+minutes to get in etc.)
But for ADRs in the park you touring you generally don't have to leave the park, get on a monorail or a ferry, get on a tram, find your car and drive to it.
And if you only eat CS like we mostly do at off times there is minimal wait.
But everyone has their own idea on what to do on vacation.
Exactly. For me once I leave the park to go back to the resort, I am not going back. Nothing like being at the park for 8 hrs then going back to cook for 4 people. Now breakfast I can understand. We would sometimes bring bagels or muffins along with juice and coffee if we have a kitchen.But for ADRs in the park you touring you generally don't have to leave the park, get on a monorail or a ferry, get on a tram, find your car and drive to it.
Wow, we really tour in different ways (nothing wrong with that--kind of interesting to see how people do it.) We go for a few hours (9-1 or so?), then back to the room for the pool or something else. Then back to the parks after an early dinner. We stayed at VGC last summer on our Disneyland trip, and I am sold on being in walking distance now. This year we're splitting between BLT and BWV, so the only bus we'll have to take is to AK. I wouldn't want to cook after 8 hours either, lol!Exactly. For me once I leave the park to go back to the resort, I am not going back. Nothing like being at the park for 8 hrs then going back to cook for 4 people. Now breakfast I can understand. We would sometimes bring bagels or muffins along with juice and coffee if we have a kitchen.
Yea we are very easy going. I usually get up before everyone else and run. We never arrive at opening since we like to take our time in the morning. We will either go in the afternoon to the parks and get something to eat or go after breakfast and stay until 2:00 or so. We really like relaxing by the pool and around the resort. Now one thing I do have through my employer is an AMEX black card (centurion). If I want a reservation, they will get it for me. No need for me to do ADR's. Last time we went was for my wife's anniversary. Got there and wanted to take her to a nice restaurant. Called Amex and asked if they can get us a reservation at Victoria and alberts. No problem. Go a few other reservations too on that trip at the last minute.Wow, we really tour in different ways (nothing wrong with that--kind of interesting to see how people do it.) We go for a few hours (9-1 or so?), then back to the room for the pool or something else. Then back to the parks after an early dinner. We stayed at VGC last summer on our Disneyland trip, and I am sold on being in walking distance now. This year we're splitting between BLT and BWV, so the only bus we'll have to take is to AK. I wouldn't want to cook after 8 hours either, lol!
Exactly. After all that cooking and cleaning, who wants to go back to the parks. If someone was taking my daughter on a trip like this, I would definitely be helping out more that what the friends parents are doing. Since I don't trust teens with the cash, I will give a savings card with a pin so in case they lose the card they are not out any $$. Instruct the girls to treat for dinner a few nights or buy groceries.
I'll explain. We have done the cost comparison and it is rather equal. I would rather have 3 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms with 3 teens than cram into a value room.is the offsite condo not refundable? I would think staying onsite in a regular room, not renting a car and using disney transport would be cheaper.... and simpler.... you can still easily eat breakfast and many snacks,etc in a regular room....
Not a sucker and I take offense to that. I offered a year ago so the parents had plenty of time to consider the costs. I am covering everything except flights and tickets in. I do not expect the girls to path for anything else except souvenirs. This is a birthday celebration and would not expect kids to pay their own way into a birthday party.Did not know it was free. I thought there was a charge per person. Never flew into Orlando since I only live 2.5 hrs away. There are so many unnecessary expenses the OP has that can be eliminated. She is not bringing elementary age children with her who cannot get money, these are teenage girls who should have money for food and misc. expenses. Sounds like OP is a little bit of a sucker for not getting a ride from the other parents.
Thank you! The airport is 2 hours away. it would cost more in gas for someone to bring us and pick us up.It's my understanding that this trip is in celebration of her daughter's Sweet 16. I would think that she expects to shoulder some, but not all, of the cost. It sounds like the friends are buying their own park tickets and paying for their own airfare. The OP already explained why it is more cost-effective for her to drive to the airport and then park there instead of having one of the parents make 2 round trips. IMO, she is being generous to pay for the condo and food, not a sucker because she chooses to pay for airport parking.
July is hot so if they spend the morning at the park- leave around 1- eat a quick lunch either at the park or at the condo- swim/ nap/ relax. Eat an early dinner go back to the park- have a snack. I think it will be just fine. By mid afternoon it is very hot or the afternoon thunderstorm will roll in. If I was the poster, I would do park opening, afternoon break and then back in the evening. I love being in the park after dark.
With all due respect, it appears that this trip is in celebration of the OP's daughter's birthday, and bringing her friends is a gift to her from her mom. All of my kids have been invited away with friends (no flights - vacation homes), and I always let them go (even though I will miss them), and send a treat. However, these parents are already out hundreds of dollars ($500+) to have one of their children take a vacation. I'd look at it like a school trip involving travel - sure, it's nice they get the opportunity to go, but I have to shell out money, and if it were up to me, I'd rather it didn't happen.
The friends' parents paid for the most expensive parts of the trip - tickets and airfare. They have no say in lodging (I'm sure the girls would rather stay in a value, and be able to go to the parks without someone's mom along the whole time), no say in meals. It's not their trip - it's the OP's and her daughter's trip. To ask them to pay for their food (and a 4 hour round trip drive to the airport?!) - if I invite, I pay. I've taken friends on long weekends, and paid for all meals and activities.
My sister is flying 2 of my girls out to her, and taking them to a Taylor Swift concert, for my niece's birthday. She's doing it for her daughter, instead of a party - she's paying. Many here spend thousands on sweet 16 parties, but the OP is chosing to let her daughter bring 2 friends to WDW (and I'm assuming she's an only child, so this seems to be common). It's going to cost her extra to bring them, it should.
We have been before in July in a town home and did just this. We choose simple meals. The girls are aware that they will have to participate in planning meals, cooking meals and cleaning up meals. They are all good girls and will have no problem with this. I am purchasing travel insurance as they are all volleyball players and run the risk of injury this summer. I do not want them to suffer financial consequences if my daughter is hurt and can not go. The tickets are not purchased yet and can be changed. We have 5 day waterpark option tickets planned. We do have time and plan to do a rummage sale yet. I was just looking for anything else in the budget I may have missed.
One thing OP that may help with budget is to give each girl a gift card with a predetermined amount for snacks for the week. This will give you an exact amount to budget for snacks. If they know in advance how much they can spend then they won't have to feel shy about asking you for a snack and it is a good budgeting lesson for the girls as well. Just a thought.
If you were worried about them losing it. You could write their name on it in permanent marker and you hang on to them or get different designs for each girl. The girls could ask for their card when they wanted a snack.
I know my own children make wiser buying decisions when they are spending "their own" money.
I'm not sure what your travel/park schedule is, but will you be touring in Orlando for the full 7 days? If not, you could save by not doing the water park add-on. Will you really have time to go to a water park with a 5 day theme park ticket and going home mid-day for lunch/supper? Right now UT is showing 4day+1 or 5 day base tickets to WDW for $321. Even 6 or 7 day Disney tickets are cheaper than a 5 day with water parks. If you decide to go to Blizzard Beach, tickets are $54 at greaterorlandodiscounts.com, or you might even be able to do it as an add-on at WDW… IF you find you have the time.
My reply wasn't to you, it was to the PP who thinks the girls should take everyone out for a few meals. I think your plan is a good one. I agree with a PP to not do water parks and more and hoppers, and you could add them later if you want.Actually, the girls did have a say in lodging and they prefer their own pool and space. Also, as far as mom tagging along, they are ok with that too. They will have their freedom in the park if they want it, but its not like I am babysitting. The moms were asked and I was up front about costs covered and not covered before the girls even knew anything, including my daughter. The girls will be getting together to preplan meals and fast passes too. This thread was about ways to cut the budget, not about who is paying for what. Can we please get back to that?