I really appreciate everyone's views on this. It helps a great deal. We want to make sure we're doing as much as possible to set our kids up for success and not bog them down with financial worries. I do believe they need to contribute something and this gives me a good handle on what things to consider. I also am not a proponent of loans. We have worked very hard to be debt free except for our house and know the value of not having such hanging over our heads. I want whatever we ask our kids to contribute to be attainable through a reasonable work schedule. I have asked many parents that we know the same thing and have been surprised at the number of parents that help with books and the rest is up to the young adult. I am not an advocate of that. We want to have the kids contribute but again ... a reasonable amount. Thank you again for all the different sides represented here.