lisaviolet
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jul 9, 2002
This is not to disregard your frustration OP, at all.. But do know none of your work is in vain. And has tremendous importance. My parents are both gone. My mother had work outside of the home, later in life. But all she did for us, is what I hang onto in both memory & appreciation.. Even when I didn't always appreciate it in the moment.
And without giving too many intimacies away, my father's focus was on just that as well, when he was palliative. I am not sure he expressed it all before that time period.
And you know what? I am single without a family of my own or children- not by choice on the latter - so this is not a patronizing count your blessings at all. But again do know how much these moments you are experiencing & that you are producing for everyone - husband, children, grandchildren and beyond - do mean in life.
(I do realize I am way off topic, but.....)
And without giving too many intimacies away, my father's focus was on just that as well, when he was palliative. I am not sure he expressed it all before that time period.
And you know what? I am single without a family of my own or children- not by choice on the latter - so this is not a patronizing count your blessings at all. But again do know how much these moments you are experiencing & that you are producing for everyone - husband, children, grandchildren and beyond - do mean in life.
(I do realize I am way off topic, but.....)
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