ronandannette
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- Joined
- May 4, 2006
Not a fan of Meri.
But I could not live with the things that were said at the counselling session. Mostly the things said in the one-on-one producer interviews about her.
I am not saying that the things said were erroneous. Most were totally valid. Or that there wasn't a need for them to be put on the table. But my God that can't be good for one's being to hear things said so bluntly. And even more in a way that lacked an ounce of care for her or any intent of moving forward in their relationship.
Maybe it feels like the chickens coming home to roost? Right from the beginning of this show it seemed pretty obvious that she was accustomed to being the "Wife in Charge". We learned over the years that it was always so, right from the time Kody married Janelle. Everything about her, in those early episodes, smacked of an emotional tyrant who bullied everybody into giving way, either overtly or covertly by manipulating Kody.I viewed Robyn as sweet and almost innocent when she first came in. This season she strikes me as an opportunist and I think she manipulates everyone with an act of sweet and innocent. I struggle with Meri. I can’t help but to feel her pain. that therapy session made me feel worse for her. Kody wants nothing to do with her anymore and made that pretty clear but I genuinely think she thought they were trying to work it out. She now knows she was the only one trying. I think he made it clear too that some of the kids and the other wives didn’t like her. i can’t imagine (right or wrong) how that must feel.
I think the whole divorce-to-marry-Robyn thing was really the first time she ran up against a brick wall and it caused her to "step out" with the on-line dating that resulted in her being catfished. It was always odd to me how that aspect of it was rarely mentioned - that it was her clear and purposeful intention to find another relationship that caused that whole debacle. Soon the "victim" narrative prevailed. It was, however a total FU to Kody and the other wives. They were all extremely gracious with her about it (at least on camera) but the fact that it killed whatever was between her and Kody shouldn't really be a shock. My own husband certainly wouldn't have moved past it, if it had been me.
ETA: Mariah didn't jump on the "poor Meri" bandwagon. She reacted with anger and disgust; very understandable feelings for a child that had been confronted by one parent cheating on the other. That, of anything, struck me as the most normal reaction of any that we saw. And yes, the irony of it, given that Kody has 4 wives, isn't lost on me, but the ethics are theirs - they all knew what they were signing up for.
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