My Dad would always say āput it upā instead of put it away. So I have always said this to my kiddos when they were growing up.
My mother I try to do NOTHING the way she does. She treats a total stranger better than she has ever treated me. I have paid off cars for her, buy her a new IPhone whenever she felt she needed one, even bought her a BRAND NEW car last Christmas, only for her to say she didnāt like it
So, NO more. Iām done. She is almost 80 years old, so she will never change. I gave up after so many people told me to just not bother with her anymore. Itās been 8 months since we last spoke, I feel bad, but it is what it is.