bababear_50
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I'm a single parent, I am lucky that I can work from home currently, and my employer should be flexible to allow this going forward. In the past my son was in before/after care for school because I couldn't do drop off and pick up at school and work a full day. However that shut down at March break. I would also put him in camps during the summer, which isn't happening this year either and won't be during the school year. I do not see how a part time in school schedule will work for the daycares, his was in the school and shared space with the library and a couple classrooms. I am assuming they will need that space for classrooms to accommodate smaller class sizes.
My son, who hates school, was asking when he can go back. He wants to see friends and be able to play. He will not do online learning, if he doesn't go to school, he won't do any of the work. He has ADHD, ODD, Anxiety... he needs to be active and he needs to be structured. I have read the school boards plans and they seem comprehensive to me, if teachers go back then I hope they have 5 days a week, or at least the 2/3 split. The plans they have for doing some in class and some online do seem good, it's just a question of getting my son to actually do it. Perhaps having to keep up with the rest of his cohort the days he is in class will encourage that. I realize my son is not average, but every parent friend I have and have spoken to had problems getting at least one of their children to do the work. Some families has to have one parent stop working, or do part time in off hours, which is not always possible for all families. I wish I could homeschool, I would love to do it, but there is no way my son will go for it. I also looked at some of the private schools but they are way too expensive for us.
I understood Ford was suggesting that perhaps outdoor classes would be an idea for September, Canadian weather is unpredictable though so that may not happen very many days a week. It is an interesting idea, I think if the climate allowed it would be a great idea.
Hi Hon
I would definitely put an email or phone call into your son's school.
I'm thinking the stay in one classroom and very little movement throughout the school (washroom only) is going to definitely impact kids with ADHD and ODD. It looks like staff will be the ones moving around from one class to another to minimize traffic.
You could ask if any more staff resources are going to be available at your school and where physical breaks when needed will be and supervised by whom.
I know we used to use the library a lot but it has now been designated storage as library circulation is out due to Covid 19. (All those carpets,tables etc had to go somewhere).
Our gym space right now may end up being before and after school care ONLY due to cleaning restrictions.
I think most gym classes will be outside.
Again health will probably be in their home form classroom.
But I'm guessing on this.
Just my two cents but most of my guys with ADHD ODD do well with 1/2 day (morning) high work structure expectations,,then lots of physical activity in the (afternoon).
If schools reopen Hybrid would you be open to him attending 5 half days and do you think the school would go for it?
Also check his IEP to see if it gives any ideas.
Hang in the Hon
Hugs
Mel