I'm just going to finish this up. I don't have any travel home pics, other than the few I took of the girls playing around the fountain while waiting for dh to load up the luggage. I'll post those later.
Sunday, May 4
Our last morning here. We travel home today. If you remember from the beginning of this trippie, we drove straight through. We decided that was not going to happen on the return trip, as it was just too exhausting. We have no plans on where we will stop and no reservations (eeewww, the thought. . . . ), but we are going to enjoy our last minutes at HRH.
Up early, pack up, which doesn't take too long. Make sure I have all the little bottles of goodies to take back to our food pantry (they are always looking for those items to put with people's food orders), and dh calls for our luggage to go down.
After the luggage has been picked up, we go down to the Kitchen for breakfast. We had a free breakfast for each of us coming, so that was a bright spot in the day. Sorry, but I don't know how much the breakfast buffet is there, however I do know it is not inexpensive. . . especially if you are not a big breakfast eater. It so happens that we all love breakfast, so are ready to chow, plus we know it's a looooonnng way home and fast food is pretty much going to be the only meals we have for the next 48.
We go to the Kitchen and enter from the patio. The hostess asks us if we went to sit inside or out, and I reply "inside". She is looking at dh and has this funny look on her face and said to me "well, I hope we aren't going to have a little dispute over where to sit" and I was like "huh?". She said "HE is shaking his head no to sitting inside". I turn to look at my husband, because it is certainly unlike him to want to sit outside, in the already blazing sun and sweat through breakfast. So, I turn to see why he wants to sit outside, and he's like "I didn't say anything. . .I want to sit inside." The hostess responded "I didn't make that up, sir, you were shaking your head NO, were you not?". He said No, I was not shaking my head no and she rolled her eyes.
Ok, at this point she has been more than rude and I'm pissed (oops, that will get censored). What I have not said previous to this, because it is not an issue for us, ever, is that my husband has something called Essential Tremors. His head tremors. Sometimes it kind of looks like palsy, but only not. . . clear as mud now?? Honestly, it didn't even dawn on me what she was saying, and I didn't even connect his tremors with her thinking he was purposely saying no. . . but let me say that when I did, I was no longer pissed about her rudeness. . . .I WAS FURIOUS!!!! First of all, it is clear that he isn't shaking his head no. . . you don't just stand there and shake your head continually for maybe 90 seconds when you are saying no. Second, even after he said he wasn't saying no, she insisted, and his head was still tremoring. My response to her was "Oh, you have mistakenly pointed out my husband's Essential Tremor issue, which, by the way, he has no control over, and made a big deal out of it with your ever-so-friendly and welcoming attitude. So perhaps you can seat us now before the OTHER half of the restaurant thinks my TREMORING husband is being obnoxious - and yes, we do want to go inside!" To her credit, she immediately realized how furious I was, turned fire red from hairline to neckline and apologized as she seated us. Dh was like, it's ok, really, we just want to get some breakfast now. I was still angry, though she did apologize, and maybe was having a bad day. It was not acceptable and I hope she learned from the experience. I won't go on any further with this, but I will say that the on-duty restaurant manager came to our table, checked on us and tried to comp us the meal. I explained that we already had the meal comped, and this was our final meal at HRH, and thanked him for the gesture. He apologized again for the "situation" and I knew that the hostess had felt so bad she went to her manager and explained what happened. Likely she was horrified and she did embarrass my dh. . . which is why I got very angry. BTW, he has since gone to a specialist and takes medication which is helpful. His neurologist told us that he has one of the most severe tremors, of his type, that he had ever seen and nothing would make it completely go away, but the meds should help. . .and they do. It is not going to progress like say Parkinsons, but the tremor looks like that. Dh is fine and healthy.
So, once seated and past the drama, we head to the food stations. OMG
How do you pick??? There were so many lovely choices we didn't know where to start first. I tried to stay away from the heavy, bread type items so I could sample more, but I got sooooo stuffed, I still didn't get to taste half of what was there. I snagged the little bottle of Tabasco sauce. . .it was so cute I couldn't help it . . . and took it with me. I still have it. . . can't bear to use it. Maybe I'll take a pic and post it. . . .
Everyone LOVED the meal. . the food was excellent. . . the service was very good and I would recommend checking it out. I think we would go back, even if we had to pay full price for the breakfast buffet. It was the best breakfast we had during our entire trip.
After we were stuffed to the point that we needed rolled up to the parking area, we waddled our way up. Dh retrieved the van, got our luggage and the girls and I went to sit by the fountain and wait. I snapped a few pics, which I will post as soon as they upload
Then we left, sad, but tired and actually glad to be heading home, though dreading that long drive. Next trip, dd16 is going to get drugged, knocked out and tied up. . .but we are flying!!
I know we drove to Tennessee and stayed in some nasty truckers hotel. . .that's all I will say. Had some yucky fast food for dinner and again for breakfast and finally arrived home sweet home on Monday afternoon. It did take a couple days to reacclimate ourselves to "real life" and I know I was very grumpy for a few days. All those months of meticulous planning, all the money, all the anticipation. . . all gone. . . over. . . finite. I wasn't expecting the depression. . . seriously, you can laugh. . . but I think I was depressed for a few days. Then I pulled it together, got all our nearly 600 pictures printed off my digital, even put together a photo album for the kids to take to school. I limited it to 100 photos
and we have some of the best memories of our lives. Definitely our favorite vacation ever and we will go back. We have since decided that we will wait a few years to return. We want to kids to have a different experience and think they will see things differently in a few years. Probably, more important, the current economy prevents us from spending that kind of money again. . .at least for another few years so that fits with our plan.
I debated with myself about sharing this information. . .but have decided to share that we spent $8,000 on this trip. I listed everywhere I could how much things cost, but I remember wishing that someone would flat out say what they spent on their vacation. We didn't HAVE to spend this much, but decided that we were not going on the cheap. I know many people go on a much, much smaller budget and have as much fun as we did. We really agreed that we were going to be able to do whatever we wanted and not have to tell our kids "no" all the time. We wanted to stay in nice places and go to all the parks we had on our list. We did all that. We didn't have to do things like go to Emeril's or rent a cabana at Aquatica. We didn't have to spend money on lot's of things that we did. . .but that is why we saved and worked our butts off (well, apparently dh is the only one who worked his butt off because mine is still extra large
). Advance planning, budgeting and saving allowed us to do what we did. Our vacation was long, we had to travel far and we did not skimp on any expenses. If our kids wanted the t-shirt, they got it. If they wanted to experience something they hadn't before, we were able to do that for them.
Dh plans to take them to Las Vegas and the Grand Canyon next, and we want to take a trip to the Colorados, if you will, because we ride ATV's/motorcycles and have heard about some wonderful riding opportunities there. He also wants to take our family on a cruise. So, it looks like maybe 3-4 more years before we get to go back to Orlando. We've got enough good times to remember to hold us over I think.
Some things we would do differently would be to fly, for sure! We will probably not return to Busch Gardens on our next trip, but spend two days at Aquatica, though we loved BG and will return again, just not next time. We probably wouldn't stay for 10 days because we would eliminate so much traveling time by flying. Save ourselves 3 nights of hotels and 3 days of car rental. We will probably try one of the other on-site hotels next time and we won't stay at Nickelodeon again. Not that we didn't enjoy it, because we did. The girls loved it and had a great time. Our kids were almost too old for it last year, and will definitely have outgrown it in a few years time. We feel like maybe we "wasted" money on staying there because we went off-site every day. So we would just find a nice place with an awesome swimming pool and stay there during the days we did SeaWorld, Aquatica and next time we will definitely do swim with the dolphins at Discovery Cove. We would also probably not plan any other parks during the days we stay on-site at Universal. Basically, our schedule would work differently than this time.
I want to recommend HRH for anyone with children with special needs. This is one area where I did not provide any detail, but trust me when I say that HRH more that met our needs and without their help, I'm not so sure things would have gone as smoothly as they did. I also want to give Nickelodeon Hotel props because they were wonderful as well. Since our stay there was only 3 nights, as opposed to 6 at HRH, we probably didn't need as many accommodations, but both places worked with us wonderfully and for many months in advance. While I laid out my husband's plans for traveling with our kids, there's no way to know for sure if those trips are possible because of one of our children's special needs. How those evolve and change as she grows older, we will have to see. Unless we can find places willing to accommodate kids with special needs as we did in Orlando, we will likely not be able to make those trips. For those of you who know what I'm talking about. . . well, you understand where I'm coming from.
We thank God every day for our special child(ren) and for our ability to travel a bit and have adventures like we did last Spring.
Thanks to all you homies who helped along the way and I hope that I can pay it forward with this trippie.