aristocatz
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 22, 2009
I have to say, I'm kind of appalled by some of the responses & it definitely makes me more vigilant for future flights (& bus rides). I'm not referring to the OP, just some of the poster's responses. When I was single or married without children, I gave up my seat all the time to help families out-no big deal. Before I had children, I gave up my seat on buses all the time as well, to help out families, guests with physical, cognitive, or limitations due to age. Cognitive limitations are 100% equal to physical limitations in these situations, in my opinion.
We are now a family of four, with two very small children. We book ahead of time, show up early, pay extra for early boarding & such, & unless there is a weather issue or a basic needs issue with my little ones, we have also bypassed crowded buses to wait for the next less crowded one, etc...but we have also been in situations that could not be avoided-flight delays, cancellations, last minute flight changes that were beyond our control. We've been split up into two, which is no big deal as long as either mom or dad is sitting next to one of our children. Despite these changes, we have never even been put into a situation where we had to ask a guest to change seats. People were always kind enough to offer, without our asking, and we have always responded with appreciation. I"m not sure if they paid extra for the seats they exchanged.
I understand someone not moving, due to their own physical or cognitive limitations.....or maybe they are seated across from their own family. But I guess it just seems to be common human kindness to change seats for a family in need.....or at the very least to just save yourself the aggravation of having to deal with a split up family who needs to get up throughout the flight to tend to their child who is sitting by themselves.
I would hope, at the very least, that the flight attendants would work with guests to ensure children were not separated from their families &/or guests who have to change seats would be compensated accordingly. I can't imagine having to get to the point where I would have to financially bribe my "neighbor" to change seats if I were separated from my children. The only time I came close to doing that was when my 2 year old threw up on the plane & I felt horrendous for the gentleman who was in the aisle seat in our row. He didn't get soiled, but I felt terrible. He was very kind about it & the flight attended changed his seat, but we bought him a drink anyways to help apologize for the troubles.
We are now a family of four, with two very small children. We book ahead of time, show up early, pay extra for early boarding & such, & unless there is a weather issue or a basic needs issue with my little ones, we have also bypassed crowded buses to wait for the next less crowded one, etc...but we have also been in situations that could not be avoided-flight delays, cancellations, last minute flight changes that were beyond our control. We've been split up into two, which is no big deal as long as either mom or dad is sitting next to one of our children. Despite these changes, we have never even been put into a situation where we had to ask a guest to change seats. People were always kind enough to offer, without our asking, and we have always responded with appreciation. I"m not sure if they paid extra for the seats they exchanged.
I understand someone not moving, due to their own physical or cognitive limitations.....or maybe they are seated across from their own family. But I guess it just seems to be common human kindness to change seats for a family in need.....or at the very least to just save yourself the aggravation of having to deal with a split up family who needs to get up throughout the flight to tend to their child who is sitting by themselves.
I would hope, at the very least, that the flight attendants would work with guests to ensure children were not separated from their families &/or guests who have to change seats would be compensated accordingly. I can't imagine having to get to the point where I would have to financially bribe my "neighbor" to change seats if I were separated from my children. The only time I came close to doing that was when my 2 year old threw up on the plane & I felt horrendous for the gentleman who was in the aisle seat in our row. He didn't get soiled, but I felt terrible. He was very kind about it & the flight attended changed his seat, but we bought him a drink anyways to help apologize for the troubles.