You sound a lot like me. I have a hard time committing now that my kids are getting older. I still try to work around their plans, but it gets harder each year. Last year was the first time our summer vacation didn't include all 3 kids
View attachment 460736. This year our middle DD graduates from college and DS graduates from High School so will be leaving this coming fall. I'm happy and sad at the same time.
I try to keep telling myself that it will allow more flexible vacations, but there are still so many things I want to do with them as a family.
So were you approved? I guess I may as well go for it. The worst they can do it tell me no, right??