I've been pretty quiet too (except the last few days with random commentary). Work has been kinda crazy and I was also having browser problems and got locked out of the Dis because of course I couldn't remember my password. Back in now though.
I feel like I've made it nowhere on my theoretical London/Paris trip as DH keeps making requests that make the dates hard to figure out. I'm going to revoke his trip request rights
First he had a themepark. Then he realized that there are these Victorian steam engines in London that he's been watching videos of on the internet for years... could we maybe go if it would work? Sure. Well of course we look and they are only scheduled to run them seven weekends this year. And none of them work with Labor Day timing. So we drop the plan of LD being an extra 'free' day off. Technically we could work one with LD, but then we would have to skip our HHN trip with Disfriends… Soooo we could go to HHN, come back for a few days, go to Europe starting with the steam engines. Or we could hit the October days, the only thing here being we would be better off to start in Paris and end in London and pay the extra to fly out of London. If we started with London that would put our Paris time for sure in the last half of the month which is when most UK/France schools have fall break, which I've been trying to avoid. Then there's the weekend before Thanksgiving, which I immediately thought, let's use Thanksgiving and Black Friday! But DH has elderly grandparents who aren't well so he doesn't want to do something like that while they are around still, which I am fine with. But we did talk about flying back that Wed, we'd be fine with being jet lagged for Thanksgiving lol. But wait... November dates mean the other theme parks (bc he added another request, of course) are closed for the season.
So the dates are hard enough, and then we are working with DHs already limited PTO. He should be fine to take part of it unpaid, honestly I think there is a good chance his boss would just make him use up his PTO but not take unpaid time... but we can work with either. But I need an idea of how many days I can play with to pick flights, and DH just keeps going well it depends on what we want to do! Well if you want to use that mentality that I'm quitting my job and living off savings for as long as possible while I travel
There are a million things to do so we will just have to do what we want in our time limits! Go back again to do more things... etc. I think I've messed DH up now because we've had quite a few minute spontaneous trips and he's not getting that I don't want to be booking these flights 3 weeks out