People are generally quite a tolerance for a toddler with an accident. However, and adult who ”looks fine” having an accident in line would be far more humiliating. Not to mention staying in line with soiled garments for an adult would be very humiliating. Most toddlers aren’t humiliated.
You’re comparing apples and oranges. Those with a bowel issue, generally have other issues. Those other issues may make it very difficult to get out of line and try to get back in. Most would give up once they got out of line.
It absolutely is 100% apples and oranges. The title and purpose of the thread is abuse right? Or perceived abuse.
I have a mobility issue that is not apparent. My DW has a new diagnosis that is not visible that does make her eligible for a DAS.
We’re VERY aware and probably hypersensitive to how it might seem when a young family strolls on up kids in tow with no apparent visual cues.
Hence why we had the discussion. We have been extremely reluctant to utilize any of the assistance so far (until the last trip) whether it be a scooter, a handicap spot, or a DAS.
But given some of the accusations in this thread, why wouldnt we consider someone trying to argue that it’s the same about this? That’s probably just us being hypersensitive about it.
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