Well done on STS this week Karen and good luck for February
Hi Is it ok fo rme to jump onboard?!
Not following any plan just "cutting down" - started 'seriously' about 2 weeks ago and have lost 2 lbs so far!
Slow and Steady that'll be me but I'm cool with that if it keeps moving
Hope to loose 14-16 lbs before my 40th in May and then keep it maintained till we go to WDW to celebrate more in June/July.
Weigh in day is Saturday so will be back with this weeks news tomorrow
To All Of You Out There:- Well done for what you've all lost so far / keep it going / stay motivated
Well done so far and welcome
Well done everyone who's had a good January.
I've only lost 4 lb in total this month, and really it should have been more, I used the snow as my excuse to eat the frozen pizzas we had, when really I think I could have rustled up something healthier!
I have 2 weddings to go to in April/May so hopefully they will keep me well motivated until then. I am really positive for February!
4lb is great! Thats a pound a week, you're more likely to keep it off that way! Good luck for Feb
Fellow dieters
I want to bring up a subject as I wonder if any of you have encountered it. Sabotage and Jealousy.
I felt when my mum came to stay last week that she tried to sabotage my efforts a little by some of her comments and actions, this isn't too much of a problem as I don't see her often but I need the people around me to support me now and and in the future, I've already told DH and my closest friend that once I'm at my goal weight they MUST tell me if I go back into "weight blindness" mode again and start putting on.
I have also had a strange (although not surprising) reaction from my friend and I might be being over sensitive about it but her previous comments in a similar situation make me wonder. My friend is slimmer than me (12) she is always at WW she loses say, 10lb every now and then and then gains it again, she will lose weight before she goes to Ascot, a wedding or her holidays but really does go up and down. She hates exercise and always just diets. I haven't talked about my diet/exercise in detail with anybody very much but she knows I'm going to the gym 4/5 times a week. Some people are starting to notice I've lost weight, some have commented in front of her and she never agrees or comments. We talked about joining the gym together and she wanted to join but as her husbands work is drying up she didn't want to commit to it financially, and she wasn't sure she would go anyway.
She has changed her diet club to Rosemary conley as you get an exercise class too, and I saw her husband at school this morning and after asking if she was unwell he said "oh no, she goes off walking everyday now with Claire (her sister) and her dogs, I think she wants to shift some serious weight" he rolled his eyes... She never told me she was doing that.
We have a mutual (not close) friend who had a gastric bypass op last year (for health and weight reasons) and when she started losing weight my friend said "Oh, I'd better go back to weight watchers, I can't be fatter than A****" This friend has since lost five stone, we don't see her much anymore, she is still quite big but she looks great.
I wonder if shes had those thoughts about me, do you think some women like having a fat friend? In our group I am definitely the fat friend
I'm just happy if my friends are happy, I
have another friend that is bigger than me but it never crosses my mind and I certainly have never had any sort of consious thought about it being a benefit to me or making
me look better.
Sorry for rant.....