ofcabbagesandkings
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 16, 2014
OP, so sorry about your BIL. My mom came with us to WDW last October a week after my grandmother passed. She had not been planning to come because my grandmother had been having issues with dementia for about a month before we learned she had cancer, and my mom was one of the few family members she reliably remembered. Our trip ended up being a week after the funeral. It was really restorative for my mom, to get out of town after spending a month dealing with nursing homes, hospitals and hospice care, and sitting in the hospice more or less around the clock for the last week before she passed. Just to spend time in a beautiful resort, playing and cuddling with her loving and happy grandsons, having nice meals, enjoying the parks and the rides. We were very gentle with her, when she wanted to just sleep in and relax in the resort one morning we just met up with her in the park that afternoon. Disney transportation makes it easy to let people go at their own pace, and cruises seem to have that advantage too.