What do you silently judge people for?

[Lehuaann]

High school musical the musical: the holiday special

Musical the musical...never would’ve guessed that

 

[Mackenzie Click-Mickelson]

the only reason this doesn't bother me is that I know someone who struggled SEVERELY with fertility issues, wanted nothing more than to have a child, had several adoptions fall through and she refers to herself as a mom to her dog and everyone in our friend group doesn't think twice about it.

If she wants to be a dog mom she can be a dog mom. It may very well be the only mom she can be at the moment.

And in all honesty it's fairly harmless as described. Plus the pet industry is billions of dollars worth; like it or not it helps the economy because you know people just have to buy these cute lil outfits:

Now come on admit y'all watched it and got a smile out of it

*Not my video

 

[prairie_girl]

Wait. What? I thought it stood for Disney too. Are you sure it doesn’t? How could it not?

In this context, on these boards, it’s for darling, as in darling husband, darling daughter.

 

[Mackenzie Click-Mickelson]

In this context, on these boards, it’s for darling, as in darling husband, darling daughter.

On the Boards it's considered all of these:




I'm sure many do use it for dear or darling but Disney is also appropriate (according to the DISboards)

 

[Timandalicia]

In this context, on these boards, it’s for darling, as in darling husband, darling daughter.

I don’t know about that. It sounds like a cop out if you ask me. Lol jk

 

[Timandalicia]

On the Boards it's considered all of these:

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I'm sure many do use it for dear or darling but Disney is also appropriate (according to the DISboards)

How do you know which one they mean? It’s always up to the reader. I will always read it as Disney, ergo it stands for Disney. Air tight logic. Haha

 

[prairie_girl]

How do you know which one they mean? It’s always up to the reader. I will always read it as Disney, ergo it stands for Disney. Air tight logic. Haha

If you ever see me type it, I mean damn lol

 

[Timandalicia]

If you ever see me type it, I mean damn lol

 

[tarheelmjfan]

My brain automatically translates it to husband, wife, daughter, son, etc. I guess I ignore the D.

 

[TikiTikiFan]

the only reason this doesn't bother me is that I know someone who struggled SEVERELY with fertility issues, wanted nothing more than to have a child, had several adoptions fall through and she refers to herself as a mom to her dog and everyone in our friend group doesn't think twice about it.

If she wants to be a dog mom she can be a dog mom. It may very well be the only mom she can be at the moment.

This. I had cancer at 27 and lost my fertility from the chemo. My dogs are my babies. I’m lucky enough to have had one kiddo before I got sick but I always wanted more- I never wanted him to be an only child. Taking care of my dogs helped with that void.

I totally judge people for the quality of their dog ‘parenting’ though. I keep it to myself but I’m totally looking at a dog’s nails that are clearly never trimmed with total judgement.

 

[Kellykins1218]

I judge people who openly push gender bias to children - "boys don't cry, man up, he's too sensitive, that's just for girls, he needs to toughen up" are all comments we've heard from people about our son - some people were family some not.

it weirds me out. and if i hear people doing it, i'm judging them. we gave my son a toy vacuum cleaner for his birthday when he turned 3 - the only one i could find was pink (which, again, seriously....?)

and my brother in law gave us a hard time - "are you trying to sissy him up"....

pardon me?

so i judge people harshly for that behavior. oh well.

I have one son who loves My Little Pony (He tells everyone he's a brony)
My youngest son is obsessed with microwaves and has a toy one in every color including pink...and a real one that's red

 

[Kellykins1218]

I purposely avoid using dh and dd when talking about my family.

Oh, I totally am judging people who put DH, DD, DS etc. I am especially judging people who say ressies and delish.

 

[tzolkin]

I am forever tripping over these similar groupings:
MDE, DME, EMH, EMM, MMRR, MSEP, EWP
SGE, SWGE, SoG, SDD, SDMT, SSE
CR, CSR, CS, CoP, PoC
FOTL, FoLK, FotA
ROFR, ROFL, RoL

My favorite on the resorts board has always been ASSports

 

[easyas123]

Oh, I totally am judging people who put DH, DD, DS etc. I am especially judging people who say ressies and delish.

OH! What about when people say 'sammies' instead of sandwich?!?!? That plucks my nerves!

 

[Moliphino]

I totally judge people for the quality of their dog ‘parenting’ though. I keep it to myself but I’m totally looking at a dog’s nails that are clearly never trimmed with total judgement.

You can come try to trim my old dog's nails if you'd like. She flails so badly the vet can't even do it. I have to catch her when she's sound asleep and maybe I can get one or two nails before she wakes up and fights me.

 

[C&Jx2]

While I’m aware of people judging me because of my tattoos period... I will silently judge people with neck/face tats, and just plain bad ones.

 

[mi*vida*loca]

Drive by parties. I understand we are in a pandemic but I judge. I have avoided any invites I’ve gotten but attended one last week for the first time because my SO asked me to go for his young niece. I felt so awkward. I’m happy that they make other people happy but I’m Still not a fan. So I probably got judged for doing something I judge.

 

[Snowflakey]

People who aren't wearing masks.

 

[linzjane88]

The list of things I don't silently judge might be shorter but this is fun :
*Conversations being held louder than others are talking (I swear there's one on every Disney bus and it's always the wierd ones)
*not wearing shirts to the gym.
*shameless selfie taking (particularly at the gym). Castle selfie? Makes total sense. Showboating your workout sweat? Your wierd.
*loud chewing
*people who insist on doing yoga or other exercises in queues for lines / airplanes /etc. Like listen: Your like two feet away from me. Please stop prominently displaying your buttcrack in my general direction.
* people yelling at their kids in public. My estranged mom was a bad example at most things in life but I did get taught the power of the "mom stare".... The one that stops you dead in your tracks. Ignoring bad behavior until you scream is awkward for everyone.
* letting your kids slam the chains and ropes in the queue
*being obnoxiously overly homeschooly about mundane activities


Honestly anything that you can ask "is anyone around me doing this right now?". If not then it is probably something I'm judging you for. Situational awareness is a fabulous skill. (or curse because I get really sweaty and uncomfortable at the slightest misbehavior by others in public.)

 

[wilbret]

I'll get blasted, but that's what the Internet is for.

I judge people on their tattoo decisions. I'd never personally get one, and I don't mind that other people do... but there are just sooooo many that could have benefitted from some pre-tattoo consultation. Don't let someone learn the craft on a visible area of your body, lol.