Yeah, I think most people are associate "bar" with partying/loud/getting drunk. The places we tend to go have more of a 90's coffee shop vibe, but they serve alcohol-- relaxing, couches, live music, board games, etc.Us too. I guess it all depends on what you consider a "bar". If it is something like cheers then hardly ever, but if something like you describe above , we have a couple place we go to once every week. We have met some really good new friends in the last year.