John VN
N.Y. STYLE CHEESECAKE RULES!!!
- Joined
- Aug 2, 2003
Thanks for the responses so far.
Been waiting for your S/O ---- "AFTER LIFE - what will it be like?"
Thanks for the responses so far.
I posted earlier and have been following along... I thought that I would share a bit more.
I know that when my grandfather passed away, he had really not said much anything for 2 or 3 days before... he told my Grandmother, that his brothers, and her brothers were there, and they were waiting on him...and kept asking her can you see them... in those 2 days, then he said to her, I have loved you my whole life, and will into the next one... I will see you again..and then closed his eyes and passed away... She said she felt a calm pass over her, joy that he was with family, and that he was no longer in pain...
When my granny passed away, I had been to visit her the day before... she had been getting everyone confused... When I walked in the room, she sat up and looked at me and started talking to me, she knew who I was... I was very close with my granny, she taught me alot of life lessons, how to cook, and sew... and set a example for me, that I looked up to... My mom was shocked, when she started talking to me... we talked for a couple of hours... Towards the end I knew she was getting tired...she told me when my mom walked out of the room, to get the nurse, that my granddaddy was there waiting for her, and her daughter ( my aunt - my mom sister who had passed away ) was there... and the rest of them... she said... she said looking up, she then started rubbing my arm, and she said I will be with you always, you will know that I am with you... You know your my favorite, now don't cry... I will be with you and see you again, but not for a long time... I love you... she passed the next night in her sleep... I woke up in the middle of the night and I knew she had passed... I could feel it.... I feel her with me all the time, I feel like she is talking to me, I can hear her voice, sometimes so clear I have to turn around and look around... at first it was kinda unnerving as I have never experienced something like this... now it is a great comfort...
percocet...pain pill...I cannot believe where I went and how all large screen it wasi refuse to even think that "this" is all there is.
I wish i had other visits, but cant seem to connect.
percocet...pain pill...I cannot believe where I went and how all large screen it was
This quote will only make people mock his disability."I regard the brain as a computer which will stop working when its components fail," he said. "There is no heaven or afterlife for broken down computers; that is a fairy story for people afraid of the dark." Stephen Hawking
Mock all you like, he's been dead for two years.This quote will only make people mock his disability.
There is no marriage in heaven, according to the Bible. I know other faiths teach something quite different but don’t know enough to answer the question from those perspectives.
I do believe in an afterlife in either Heaven or Hell.
However, while I understand that there’s no ”marriage” in Heaven, that’s what makes me so sad about death... knowing that I won’t “know” my husband in Heaven like I know him here on earth... that our relationships w/ the people we love won’t be the same. I’m not going to be sharing a mansion w/ DH & our kids... it’s heartbreaking to me that what we have here on earth w/ our loved ones most likely won’t be the same in Heaven. Yet I also know, that while here on earth, I don’t & can’t understand everything, &, when I get to Heaven, I’ll understand & won’t be sad. But, right now while I’m still alive on earth, it’s very sad to me.
Where do you get that from.
W/o getting into religion, it’s hard to explain.
But, simply said, I do believe the Bible, & I don’t think our relationships w/ others in Heaven are going to be the same - or the way we understand relationships to be - as here on earth... we will be w/ our loved ones but it will be & feel different. I don’t think I’ll have the same husband-wife relationship w/ my husband in Heaven, and that is sad to me.
Over the past few years, we’ve had 4 deaths in my husband’s family - his father & his 3 uncles... all pretty much one after the other. So there was a span of time, where we were all together for visitations & funeral services 4 different times. At each service, at some point, someone would reference how there was a big reunion going on in Heaven, &, at one of the funerals, the pastor said that, while the chairs around the ”family table” here on earth are getting emptier, the chairs around the “family table” in Heaven are getting fuller... and, one day, we’ll all be reunited around the table in Heaven. And, while it’s a nice thought & I do think we’ll be reunited w/ our loved ones in a sense, I don’t think it’s going to be like how we imagine it here on earth. I don’t think our earthly human minds can comprehend Heaven & what our “relationships” w/ each other in Heaven will actually be like.
I also don’t think our loved ones who have gone on before us can really “see” us here on earth because, if they did, I’m sure there, at times, would be a lot of tears & sorrow, & the Bible says there are no tears in Heaven.
The joy we experience in Heaven will be far more wonderful than any relationship here on Earth. We will not be sad that we do not have a marriage relationship. There will be no tears, no sorrow, no pain, no death. A wonderful Christian man was once asked about Heaven. He said that one of the most wonderful things will be that no unkind word will ever be spoken. That is powerful when we think of all the unkind words and the grief those words have caused.
Right. I agree. I don’t think that, once I’m in Heaven, I’ll be sad that I don’t have a true marriage relationship w/ my husband because Heaven is going to be more wonderful than anything I can imagine or comprehend. But, here on earth, w/ my earthly mind & earthly understanding, it makes me sad to think about not knowing my husband in Heaven the way I know him here on earth.