trstno1
Never look back darling. It detracts from the now.
- Joined
- Nov 16, 2001
I'll throw in my data point. A few years ago my wife bought her parents and me testing kits. At that time there was very little matching with relatives. It was just out of interest in ethnic heritage. I am adopted, and I didn't really have an interested in finding my birth mother. My Ancestry ethnic heritage turned out to be pretty boring, and it has become more boring as it has been refined. My father-in-law found out he has a little Polynesian in hum, though, so that's kind of fun.
This past January I was contacted by a first cousin who matched with me on Ancestry. We've been conversing, and with a few clues from her and some low-level cyber-creeping, I've been able to figure out who my birth mother is. Through other matches I have been able to narrow down my birth father to two individuals. It's been surprisingly fun learning a little bit about them, though I still don't feel an urge to disrupt my life or theirs with an actual meet.
I don't know what the point of my story is other than to point out that there are a ton of people doing these genetic tests now, and it seems to be highly probable that you can match with at least second/third cousins, and possibly with closer relatives. Add in a little Google, and there's a reasonable probability that you can find a birth family.