nativetxn, Whether or not you'd accept, you're invited to my house anytime. I'm over my ideal weight, myself. I have absolutely nothing against overweight people, or Leslie would have never been my friend in the first place. I initiated that friendship. I wasn't ashamed to be seen with her, or I wouldn't have invited her to my home to walk around my neighborhood.
What disgusted me about Leslie was the fact that she just didn't care. She wouldn't continue our walks, because she was lazy. The doc told her that she needed to get some exercise and cut back on the food. She didn't care about her health, and she was literally taking food from her young child. That child was hungry, because his mother was eating his food.
Yes, I find that behaviour disgusting.