ThinkBelieveDream&Dare
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 23, 2019
I seems like I need to somehow get this straitened out PRIOR to purchasing a resale contract. Trying so straiten something out with someone who just wants to point the finger at me and fight me on all this really sucks. Worse than that it REALLY sucks all the magic out of the process.
10 Years is a long time to have this hanging over you, your ex and especially your new family I totally agree, imo it would be foolhardy to go ahead with purchasing a new contract without settling this issue once and for all.
Your ex seems to have a lot of pain and much anger about your breakup; I assume you're in the USA, do you have a mediation service in your state?
I would think you could both gain a lot from sitting down with an impartial person and (hopefully) finding some closure to enable a move forward.
If you don't feel comfortable answering these questions just ignore me.This was 8 years ago when I purchased Aulani so I'm sure we both signed with the understanding that those points belonged to me since we separated. Thank or we just didn't know what we were doing at the time.
Yes the AKV was paid out of a joint account (I won't do that again) so technically she is entitled to half of it's value as am I. But she will not let me take her name off of it because she still want control to use it when she wants plus I'm paying the dues.
As far at the AUL goes, I paid 100% BUT since her name is on the deed she is still technically entitled to half of it's value if she really wanted to play dirty.
When you bought the Aulani Direct contract, were you actually at Disney, or did you do everything via phone and email?
Did you have a loan or mortgage attached to the contract?
If so was your ex's name on that and was she physically with you at the time to sign the document?